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[quote=Anonymous]A few weekends ago our neighbor had a few too many drinks and started talking to my DH about how he's close to having a full blown affair and has already made some questionable choices. The neighbor asked him not to tell anyone, obviously. DH told me because he said it was a lot for him to know without being able to discuss with anyone.

I'm friendly with the neighbor's wife but not super close. Our kids are friendly.  I know it's none of my business so of course I'm going to keep my mouth shut but I feel uncomfortable knowing all of this. We're supposed to hang out with them tomorrow with all of the kids. I have some pretty disgusting feelings toward the husband right now but I'm going to suck it up since we had made these plans a long time ago.

What is the protocol for moving forward? Obviously mind my own business but it's hard to stand by and know what's going on and watch her be oblivious especially when there are children involved. There is always the chance that she knows about it and is turning a blind eye. But there's also the greater chance that she would be crushed to find out about this. Do we just kind of phase them out so as to not be involved? We tend to hang out with them a lot during the summer so it would be obvious that we're avoiding them.

It's just a messy situation all around. My head tells me to stay out of it but my heart tells me that I would want someone to say something to me if they knew something like this about my husband. [/quote]

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