Reply to Confronting a cheater: in person or e-mail?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Confronting a cheater: in person or e-mail?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you bothering to confront him?  What do you hope to gain?  Do you live together?  Any kids?[/quote]

No to both. As for the reason, I guess I would like to know why. Crazy, right? Once a cheater, always a cheater. [/quote]

I confronted a cheater in a long distance relationship with me. I found some of his date sites. I was extra nice a month before and wanted a knee jerk reaction so he wouldnt change his story but i didnt want to confront him in person or give the satisfaction of me crying over it so i texted in a real time texting app then casually mentioned his date site. At first he denied it, lied of course that it was innocent then got really upset. He went ad far as saying he wouldnt have minded if i had slept with anyone. We stopped talking for weeks then he texted me and called and said he wanted to work things out and was going to be honest. So he told me everything that happened in detail and answered everything. I cried but i told him i couldnt forgive him and hung up. He called back amd we tried things again but honestly even though he sent me his username and password to all his accounts i couldnt trust him again even after he took down his date profiles and became more attentive and generous. I now knew there was an ugly side to him and felt him and his actions werent real and even when he said he loved me i didnt feel it again. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics