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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The setting is college. The student no longer attends the university (not because of graduation, for other reasons) and I am no longer employed by this particular university (have moved on to another one). When we got together socially (the student and I) it was after the student was no longer a student at the college and all authority had been removed. Unfortunately my concern is more along the lines of if the student gets angry because nothing develops that the student goes to the university I am about to join and uses texts we have exchange to create a story that I was predatory. Again I take responsibility for being stupid here, but am just looking for advice on how to diffuse. Am I best trying to talk directly to the student (who btw is not currently angry -- just confused about where things are going) or do I play the slow de-escalation route.[/quote]

Don't stir anything up until you get the new job and have locked it in (not sure how long it will take).   Keep your texts back noncommittal. Start tapering down the texts using the excuse that you are busy at work, etc.  After a few months, I don't think she can do as much damage as you think.[/quote]

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