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[quote=Anonymous]I'm dating a wonderful man. I'm mid-30s have had several very long term relationships but none ever went to marriage for a variety of reasons. I finally met someone that I completely click with - there is no drama, very loving relationship, includes me 100% in his life, and just overall great person. Everyone I meet has a warm and great relationship with him. I could see being very happily married to him and vice versa. However, he has a job that sends him around the world to live in places and has no ability to change the assignments.

When we first starting dating we thought that he could be based here and take short assignments abroad. However, now that we are closer to the next assignment its becoming more clear to both of us that we may have little to no control over when and where we could be together for the next 10 years. I tried to see if I could leave at any point in the next 10 years and I'm probably 90% stuck here for many reasons including work and family.

Neither of us want to end the relationship, we're both still trying to see what we can do to make it work. Would you take a risk of trying to make it work (because we could get lucky) or let this person go?[/quote]

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