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Reply to "Wives - how involved are you in your husband's career decisions? "
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[quote=Anonymous]Are you doing the same survey for husbands? I'm involved to the point where he asks my advice about things like applying for a new position or taking a role with more travel. I have used my network to get his resume last hr and to a manager since I know some people in the organization (even if I'm in a different field entirely). Dh is a reservist so we talked about what that commitment means to our lives and the different options there are for him and what that means civilian career wise and military career wise. I may out myself if anyone knows me but he had the option to switch units to one more aligned with his skill set and ambitions when dd was one week old. Caveat is that unit would for sure deploy in a year. We had a hard and long conversation now it's that time and he's in another country until winter. It was a thought out choice based on everything including support systems I have in place to make my year manageable. I also discuss my career movements with him but in what I want, how it may happen and how it would affect our lives. [/quote]
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