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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just because someone voted for Trump doesn't mean he's a bad person - possibly just an idiot. Your DH needs to get over it....on his own. I've got a ton of friends who voted for Trump. I don't like it but I certainly understand that Hillary was a lousy alternative for many people. Tons of Trump voters were simply Hillary haters and vice versa. [/quote]

NP here, it's about politics but it isn't.  We all make decisions about friends that are too much like us and friends that are too different from us and where is that balance.  It doesn't mean anyone is a "bad hombre" but it also doesn't mean I have to convince my friend of anything or try to understand why or vice versa. It's like if someone said cats make the best pets and someone said dogs made the best pets - I have to decide, do I accept the person that had the opposite preference or not, not try to change them.  They have the same decision.  And yes, how in the face the person might be and my personality can play a role, if I hate dogs and you insist on bringing your dog with you to visit me, that might be a problem.  If we have the same type of personality equally blunt or equally quiet personality it may work too - like you never ask to bring your dog, so it's never in your face or we both thrive on debating about it with no resolution or I want to be convinced because I'm wavering and you are there to be the rah rah convincing person.

So to OP, I would leave it alone and let DH make his decisions.[/quote]

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