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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are traveling to NYC today (his home).  I was going over our plans and asked if we're seeing J, one of his oldest friends from elementary school.  He said no, not this time, and gave me a funny face.  When I pushed, he admitted, "J voted Trump. It's all over his Facebook page."

J is a cop, and a good one, not one of the dirty ones.  We all know cops vote republican.  DH has a mother, sister, wife, two daughters, etc.  He's not as outspoken as I am about it, but he's a quiet feminist.  So someone who abuses women should NOT be president, let alone out of jail, in DH's mind.  DH further went on to say he needs some space and time from J, and maybe in the future ...

DH feels strongly and isn't going to change his mind this trip.  He only gets to see J about every other year, so to skip an opportunity is a big deal.  Anything I can do/say to help DH?  I'm sure he's sad and missing his friend, yet I also very much appreciate the stance he's taken.  [/quote]

How about saying nothing and just letting him come to you when he needs/wants to? Of course he's sad and missing his friend, but likely talking about it isn't where he wants to go with this.

Of course, there is always sex or a bj.[/quote]

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