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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. In your opinion, what can we do to make him feel more comfortable? Do we let him continue to copy DD and then maybe eventually he feels comfortable? Though he's been doing it for years and hasn't stopped so I'm not sure if that's the best approach. [/quote]

OP, I had the same reaction.  When I had foster kids, this is exactly what the new one would do.  I remember feeling happy that there were kids to copy from so they felt like they knew how to behave in my house and I remember feeling really happy when it stopped because they then felt like they were home.

With your DSS, does he have his own space and his own things in your house or does he live out of a suitcase?  Can he get snacks out of the refrigerator or pantry without asking?  [/quote]

This is a great viewpoint and I commend you for opening your home to foster children. DSS doesn't have his own room (we only have a two bedroom town home for now) but does have his own toys, clothes, etc. He prefers to play with DD's toys...maybe because she's playing with them too. Of course he's "allowed" to get snacks on his own but I do notice he will normally only get something if DD gets it first. You guys are really opening my eyes. I never thought about him being uncomfortable or not feeling settled or at home at our place. Can't believe I've been so blind to this.  :( [/quote]

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