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Reply to "Husband isn't good provider and I secretly hate him for it"
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[quote=Anonymous]I am kind of in a similar situation. My husband is in a govt job that gives him a lot of flexibility, but doesn't have the best earning potential, which is particularly annoying because he has a lot of student debt and I hate having any sort of debt (I paid grad school loans and car loans off). After a long time being upset about this, and wishing we had more, I finally realized that there are a lot of things he brings to the table. I value those now as much as the money he brings (I earn more). Admittedly, I was raised in a family where my dad was the sole provider so it took some adjusting. I would encourage you to look at what positives he brings to the relationship. You may also want to meet with a financial planner to set savings goals you can both work towards so you can get into a house. [/quote]
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