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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP - is your husband's affair over? Who broke it off? And did you ever want to confront the other woman?[/quote] As far as I know, it's over. He broke it off after I figured it out. [b]I am not willing to spy on him constantly to make sure it's done. That's no way to live.[/b] I met the OW after the affair. I did not confront her. I told my husband not to tell her I knew, and I hope that he listened but who knows. I pretended I was happy to meet her and moved on. We met in a group with several of his coworkers and I didn't want to deal with any sort of confrontation. She, however, basically almost started crying and left. I was, honestly, annoyed that she couldn't keep her shit together, but oh well. She is not my problem, my husband is. I mean, i don't like her and think she has some serious character flaws, but I am not wasting my time on her.[/quote] +1 I was cheated on, it was caught and allegedly stopped, but for awhile I was paranoid and obsessed with checking up on everything -- phone calls, texts. At some point you say screw it. I can move on from this or not. With a good home and two great kids we are trying to hold it together and at some point you have to make the decision to trust again. It is the hardest thing I have ever done[/quote]
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