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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate making telephone calls and I know sometimes it's hard to find the right words on the spot. If you send a card, I'd certainly write more than that you're sorry you can't go. I'd explain the reasons and write something really heartfelt about how happy you are for her, after all the years of knowing her that you're so happy she found the right one, maybe add in some kind of memory. I'd really make it personal and from the heart so it doesn't seem so casual. [/quote]

OP here. Yes, that is what I thought. I am a MUCH better writer than phone caller! I was going to write a long, heartfelt message. Not just, "sorry, can't make it. Here's some cash". [/quote]

AgReese with this general concept but I wouldn't get into a long list of reasons. Is just say you've already committed to a christening or something that weekend. Something serous enough to warrant skipping but not interesting enough for anyone to follow up on.

I know people say you shouldn't lie but in these situations it ends the conversation and no one tries to convince you otherwise. If she's having a big wedding she'll feel a blip of sadness and move on to the next thing on her list[/quote]

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