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[quote=Anonymous]It's hard to know what to do--how to guess the future exactly--but here are some things to consider:
-the longer he is out of work and you are the breadwinner, the more likely he will be awarded alimony or some kind of support. 
-the longer he is out of work and you are the breadwinner, the more your joint assets (assets primarily paid for with your money) will likely grow and the more you will have to pay him (i.e. your house will appreciate in value, your retirement 401k will be larger). even if you own the house (it's in your name), he will be eligible for 50% of its increase in value during the time you were married.
-if he is a SAH and you are a WOH and this is a documented arrangement, the more likely he will get primary custody of your daughter.

When you say it's expensive to divorce, it's true, it is, but that cost will only grow with time not shrink and recede. If things are not good now and permanently so, kicking the can down the road will lead to a larger can, IMHO.[/quote]

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