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[quote=Anonymous]My experience almost identical to PP above. About 7 years, not totally sexless, but month long droughts, averaging 2x a month and she was never into it. Like above, ditching hormonal BC helped, as did youngest hitting kindergarten. I can't describe the horrific effect it had on our marriage. We unraveled. I would have been one of those "sex isn't everything" posters, until it happened to me. I really stopped caring what she thought. But for our kids, I would have left. If you would have asked DW through all of this, she would have told you we had a good marriage. Delusional. She thinks no one really has sex with small kids. Reading these boards, I think she may be half right. No wonder so many men cheat during these years. Affairs x2. Never caught. They kept me from walking out in total anger. Doing better now. Probably a combo of her drive coming up, mine coming down. I would be happy with 3-4x a week, her 2x a month, we settle on about 1x a week. It's workable. [/quote]
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