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[quote=Anonymous]Answer honestly, are you OP willing to commute longer, work more hours and give up the flexibility you have to earn more? If you think it is important enough for you to make those sacrifices, I would discuss with DH what changes need to be made to make that happen. That means, he has to take off sick days with the kids or help come up with a solution. Your increase in salary has to be enough to cover a helper when needed but he also has to commit to making things work around his home commitments. So if he is picking up Tues/Thursday and has something come up, can he still pick up the kids and then log in once they go to sleep or does he have a contingency plan that isn't to call you and have you leave early every time? This is the type of negotiation and compromise I would expect. I have a saying that you shouldn't be telling someone what they should sacrifice.[/quote]
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