Anonymous wrote:I often date anywhere between 3-5 guys. I don't sleep with them. I try to schedule dates on the same day so I can keep my nice blowout, or when I just get my nails done. I try to eat meals with them because you have to eat and there are only so many hours in the day. Online is good but I am also open to meeting people in my every day: coffee shops, groceries, the gym, on the subway. Good luck!

Anonymous wrote:On-line and no sex til you agree to be exclusive and profiles are down. Easy peasy.

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Anonymous wrote:I often date anywhere between 3-5 guys. I don't sleep with them. I try to schedule dates on the same day so I can keep my nice blowout, or when I just get my nails done. I try to eat meals with them because you have to eat and there are only so many hours in the day. Online is good but I am also open to meeting people in my every day: coffee shops, groceries, the gym, on the subway. Good luck!

You want to be stuck eating a meal with someone you just met? No thanks, just a drink or coffee is best. Sounds like maybe you just want a free meal.

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Anonymous wrote:On-line and no sex til you agree to be exclusive and profiles are down. Easy peasy.

Just don't cry when he ghosts you.

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Anonymous wrote:On-line and no sex til you agree to be exclusive and profiles are down. Easy peasy.

Another profile can be created by either party - not so easy peasy.

Anonymous wrote:It's pretty easy with on-line dating. I'm dating two men right now and being exclusive hasn't been discussed. I see both of them about once a week. I got divorced less than a year ago so they understand that I'm interested in having fun and not in a LTR. I don't say that I'm seeing other guys and I don't ask them if they are seeing other women. I'm having safe sex with both of them and after a few years of no sex I'm really enjoying it.

Anonymous wrote:True which is why I avoid bathroom stall sex at rest stops with strangers.


Otherwise I feel pretty confident in my ability as a grown professional woman who has had permanent BC measures taken.


I appreciate your shame, but don’t need any- quite pleased with my choices

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Anonymous wrote:True which is why I avoid bathroom stall sex at rest stops with strangers.


Otherwise I feel pretty confident in my ability as a grown professional woman who has had permanent BC measures taken.


I appreciate your shame, but don’t need any- quite pleased with my choices

You do know pregnancy prevention isn't the only thing needed for safe sex, right?
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Also most women get STDs from known partners

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Anonymous wrote:I often date anywhere between 3-5 guys. I don't sleep with them. I try to schedule dates on the same day so I can keep my nice blowout, or when I just get my nails done. I try to eat meals with them because you have to eat and there are only so many hours in the day. Online is good but I am also open to meeting people in my every day: coffee shops, groceries, the gym, on the subway. Good luck!

You want to be stuck eating a meal with someone you just met? No thanks, just a drink or coffee is best. Sounds like maybe you just want a free meal.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:True which is why I avoid bathroom stall sex at rest stops with strangers.


Otherwise I feel pretty confident in my ability as a grown professional woman who has had permanent BC measures taken.


I appreciate your shame, but don’t need any- quite pleased with my choices

You do know pregnancy prevention isn't the only thing needed for safe sex, right?
.
Also most women get STDs from known partners

Yes thank you. But if I can handle ensuring I don’t get pregnant via removal of organs I’m sure you can suss together the idea that I can responsibly handle my own sexual health .

You were the one worried about stranger sex- now you’re saying that’d be safer?

Worry about your own vagina.

Anonymous wrote:I want to change my dating strategy. I've always dated one man at which has resulted in me
1. Becoming too attached too quickly
2. The guy becoming to comfortable with very little commitment

I think dating around could be good for me. How do you do that?

Anonymous wrote:I often date anywhere between 3-5 guys. I don't sleep with them. I try to schedule dates on the same day so I can keep my nice blowout, or when I just get my nails done. I try to eat meals with them because you have to eat and there are only so many hours in the day. Online is good but I am also open to meeting people in my every day: coffee shops, groceries, the gym, on the subway. Good luck!