How do you date multiple men,?
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Anonymous
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I want to change my dating strategy. I've always dated one man at which has resulted in me
1. Becoming too attached too quickly 2. The guy becoming to comfortable with very little commitment I think dating around could be good for me. How do you do that? |
Anonymous
| Online dating |
Anonymous
| Easy -- online dating. I'm married now, but when I was online dating, I could easily line up multiple dates a week. |
Anonymous
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I would date only one I'm interested in, don't have sex unless both agree to be exclusive.
Make sure you're only dating the ones that want a long term relationship leading to marriage. All on the check list for online dating. If the actions aren't matching the words immediately dump. I made a few mistakes along the way, but the above worked for me. Long time married now. |
Anonymous
| And commujicate with a couple under the guise of being just friends. If you do like him, keep him in the friend zone. |
Anonymous
| 7 days in a week. Get busy. |
Anonymous
| I often date anywhere between 3-5 guys. I don't sleep with them. I try to schedule dates on the same day so I can keep my nice blowout, or when I just get my nails done. I try to eat meals with them because you have to eat and there are only so many hours in the day. Online is good but I am also open to meeting people in my every day: coffee shops, groceries, the gym, on the subway. Good luck! |
Anonymous
| Online. I’ll meet one or two a week for coffee when I’m looking at applicants. Good coffee moves on to dinner. Over the past 6 mos I’ve probably gone on 12 first dates, 8 second dates and have been sleeping with one person for a while now. |
Anonymous
| This doesn't sound like a question a woman would even need to ask. |
Anonymous
| Of you had read the other thread you’d learn that it’s because all women everywhere are unable to know their own minds, and will inevitably fall in love with every man they date.. |
Anonymous
| It's pretty easy with on-line dating. I'm dating two men right now and being exclusive hasn't been discussed. I see both of them about once a week. I got divorced less than a year ago so they understand that I'm interested in having fun and not in a LTR. I don't say that I'm seeing other guys and I don't ask them if they are seeing other women. I'm having safe sex with both of them and after a few years of no sex I'm really enjoying it. |
Anonymous
| On-line and no sex til you agree to be exclusive and profiles are down. Easy peasy. |
Anonymous
+1 Good advice. Everyone knows when you are dating others, doesn't look good. |
Anonymous
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Is sex really that contractual to you all?
Take down all profiles before the panties get taken down? I mean- maybe I’m a safe sex having slut but no. |
Anonymous
Another profile can be created by either party - not so easy peasy. |