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[Post New]11/27/2018 10:50
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Anonymous
how does this work? I've seen this guy three times now. I'm married (my husband knows; we have recently opened our marriage), he's dating someone (she doesn't know). I would like to see him regularly but have no idea of the logistics of FWB "dating." I don't want to seem desperate and the reality is my time is limited. He texted a few days ago to check in and I've made it clear I'd like to see him again but he hasn't tried to firm up plans. Do I just let him take the lead?
Thanks.
and please, if you disapprove of my lifestyle, no need to comment...just move along.
[Post New]11/27/2018 10:56
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Anonymous
Hmm, I think either is acceptable. If you want to screw and are limited for time, I think you'd be the one to suggest times. Just know it won't last long for the simple fact that he has someone else whom he hasn't told yet - guy wants his cake and to eat it too.
[Post New]11/27/2018 11:01
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Anonymous
Text this:

12/1/18 pound me 7pm
[Post New]11/27/2018 11:02
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Text this:

12/1/18 pound me 7pm


[Post New]11/27/2018 11:02
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Text this:

12/1/18 pound me 7pm


"PS: bring several rubbers"
[Post New]11/27/2018 11:03
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Hmm, I think either is acceptable. If you want to screw and are limited for time, I think you'd be the one to suggest times. Just know it won't last long for the simple fact that he has someone else whom he hasn't told yet - guy wants his cake and to eat it too.


yeah this is kind of the bummer.
[Post New]11/27/2018 12:28
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:how does this work? I've seen this guy three times now. I'm married (my husband knows; we have recently opened our marriage), he's dating someone (she doesn't know). I would like to see him regularly but have no idea of the logistics of FWB "dating." I don't want to seem desperate and the reality is my time is limited. He texted a few days ago to check in and I've made it clear I'd like to see him again but he hasn't tried to firm up plans. Do I just let him take the lead?
Thanks.
and please, if you disapprove of my lifestyle, no need to comment...just move along.


If you want to see him again I’d suggest taking control and suggesting times.

BTW, how was it being with someone new after a long time? Was it good?

DH and I have toyed with the idea of a similar arrangement.
[Post New]11/27/2018 12:30
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Anonymous
If you are married then you should plainly say, "I am in an open marriage. What's good?" There is no need to pussyfoot around.
[Post New]11/27/2018 12:56
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Text this:

12/1/18 pound me 7pm


#MeAgain
[Post New]11/27/2018 12:57
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you are married then you should plainly say, "I am in an open marriage. What's good?" There is no need to pussyfoot around.


This. He’s probably trying to be a gentleman and not come on too strong.
[Post New]11/27/2018 13:11
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Anonymous
The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?
[Post New]11/27/2018 13:12
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?


It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!
[Post New]11/27/2018 13:14
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Anonymous
Take the lead, OP. It will be fun. Enjoythe moment, and don't hold back.
[Post New]11/27/2018 13:30
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?


It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!


I take it that you'd bring your A game and make her eyes roll back?
[Post New]11/27/2018 13:42
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taketothebank
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The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?


Do not post a profile that includes your face or any feature (or background) that would out you. Then, because you are on the system (e.g., Tinder) you can contact men you like and let them know you are interested.

Once you find someone and establish they are cool with your situtation, you can send a photo or meet up.
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