FWB

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?

It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!

I take it that you'd bring your A game and make her eyes roll back?

That is how I found my FWB.

[Anonymous]

taketothebank wrote:

The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?

Do not post a profile that includes your face or any feature (or background) that would out you. Then, because you are on the system (e.g., Tinder) you can contact men you like and let them know you are interested.

Once you find someone and establish they are cool with your situtation, you can send a photo or meet up.

How do you know so much about this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?

It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!

I take it that you'd bring your A game and make her eyes roll back?

That is how I found my FWB.

By making their eyes roll? Does anyone actually do that?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you are married then you should plainly say, "I am in an open marriage. What's good?" There is no need to pussyfoot around.

This. He’s probably trying to be a gentleman and not come on too strong.

LOLwut, he's dealing with a married woman who wants to be an FWB and he's "trying to be a gentleman"? I don't think so. Or if he is, she picked the wrong fvcktoy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:how does this work? I've seen this guy three times now. I'm married (my husband knows; we have recently opened our marriage), he's dating someone (she doesn't know). I would like to see him regularly but have no idea of the logistics of FWB "dating." I don't want to seem desperate and the reality is my time is limited. He texted a few days ago to check in and I've made it clear I'd like to see him again but he hasn't tried to firm up plans. Do I just let him take the lead?
Thanks.
and please, if you disapprove of my lifestyle, no need to comment...just move along.

Just tell him you are DTF and suggest a time to get together to make it happen. That should move things along.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?

It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!

I take it that you'd bring your A game and make her eyes roll back?

That is how I found my FWB.

By making their eyes roll? Does anyone actually do that?

Yes! And more!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?

It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!

I take it that you'd bring your A game and make her eyes roll back?

That is how I found my FWB.

By making their eyes roll? Does anyone actually do that?

Yes! And more!

What’s the and more part?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are married then you should plainly say, "I am in an open marriage. What's good?" There is no need to pussyfoot around.

This. He’s probably trying to be a gentleman and not come on too strong.

LOLwut, he's dealing with a married woman who wants to be an FWB and he's "trying to be a gentleman"? I don't think so. Or if he is, she picked the wrong fvcktoy.

He may not know that. Who knows if she mentioned the details of her relationship with her husband and what she wants out of a relationship with this guy.

[Anonymous]

In my previous experience, the hardest part of these situations was finding the right venue for the action. I was in an open relationship, she was in an open marriage - we had to get hotels occasionally. Or she would would "work from home" and I would stop by in between my grad school classes.

You'll need to get creative about having a spot for your trysts. Stopping by his place after work for an hour on the way home also works well.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?

It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!

I take it that you'd bring your A game and make her eyes roll back?

That is how I found my FWB.

By making their eyes roll? Does anyone actually do that?

Yes! And more!

What’s the and more part?

I can't say or it will get deleted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?

It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!

I take it that you'd bring your A game and make her eyes roll back?

That is how I found my FWB.

By making their eyes roll? Does anyone actually do that?

Yes! And more!

What’s the and more part?

I can't say or it will get deleted.

Then you’ll have to imply and use metaphors!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are married then you should plainly say, "I am in an open marriage. What's good?" There is no need to pussyfoot around.

This. He’s probably trying to be a gentleman and not come on too strong.

LOLwut, he's dealing with a married woman who wants to be an FWB and he's "trying to be a gentleman"? I don't think so. Or if he is, she picked the wrong fvcktoy.

He may not know that. Who knows if she mentioned the details of her relationship with her husband and what she wants out of a relationship with this guy.

He definitely knows he's cheating on his girlfriend, so he's not much of a gentleman just from that standpoint alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biggest problem I have experienced is that you can’t really go on a date or have your profile with picture posted on the web because of the fear of getting caught by coworkers, neighbors, relatives etc. how do you overcome this?

It would be nice to find someone who don’t wanna go on a date and is willing to hit the bedroom already... haven’t met her yet!!

I take it that you'd bring your A game and make her eyes roll back?

That is how I found my FWB.

By making their eyes roll? Does anyone actually do that?

Yes! And more!

What’s the and more part?

really?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:how does this work? I've seen this guy three times now. I'm married (my husband knows; we have recently opened our marriage), he's dating someone (she doesn't know). I would like to see him regularly but have no idea of the logistics of FWB "dating." I don't want to seem desperate and the reality is my time is limited. He texted a few days ago to check in and I've made it clear I'd like to see him again but he hasn't tried to firm up plans. Do I just let him take the lead?
Thanks.
and please, if you disapprove of my lifestyle, no need to comment...just move along.

If you want to see him again I’d suggest taking control and suggesting times.

BTW, how was it being with someone new after a long time? Was it good?

DH and I have toyed with the idea of a similar arrangement.

I’ve been with a couple other guys besides my husband because we are also swingers. It’s fun and exciting and makes me feel sexy again. Not sure how long I can sustain the FWB thing because I could see myself falling for this guy.

[Anonymous]

Send him a nude selfie