Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

Fact: You’ve known someone for 6 months.
Fact: You’re having difficulty communicating about sex.
Fact: You’re insecure as you wonder if you’re doing something wrong.
Fact: You’re making life plans with someone you’ve known for six months.

Future fact: Disaster

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he's on a sex strike. Did you discuss the Kennedy resignation recently? I couldn't sleep with a woman who supported Roe v. Wade.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe he's on a sex strike. Did you discuss the Kennedy resignation recently? I couldn't sleep with a woman who supported Roe v. Wade.

LOL, how do you sleep with women at all if you don't respect them??

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

Fact: You’ve known someone for 6 months.
Fact: You’re having difficulty communicating about sex.
Fact: You’re insecure as you wonder if you’re doing something wrong.
Fact: You’re making life plans with someone you’ve known for six months.

Future fact: Disaster

You’re a moron. Many older couples know what they want in a partner and get married quickly. When you know, you know. OP doesn’t seem insecure at all.

Anonymous wrote:Herpes flare up?

Happened to a friend.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

Fact: You’ve known someone for 6 months.
Fact: You’re having difficulty communicating about sex.
Fact: You’re insecure as you wonder if you’re doing something wrong.
Fact: You’re making life plans with someone you’ve known for six months.

Future fact: Disaster

You’re a moron. Many older couples know what they want in a partner and get married quickly. When you know, you know. OP doesn’t seem insecure at all.

Here let me quote OP exactly as she talks about someone she’s known for 6 months and thinks she might marry:
“I’m worried something is wrong or he’s losing interest in me.” Those are not the words of a confident woman. If they “know” this is “it,” their biggest problem should be picking out a movie they both like, not whether the other partner isn’t attracted to her or lack of interest in sex.