Boyfriend Has Been Rejecting Me..

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

Fact: You’ve known someone for 6 months.
Fact: You’re having difficulty communicating about sex.
Fact: You’re insecure as you wonder if you’re doing something wrong.
Fact: You’re making life plans with someone you’ve known for six months.

Future fact: Disaster

You’re a moron. Many older couples know what they want in a partner and get married quickly. When you know, you know. OP doesn’t seem insecure at all.

Here let me quote OP exactly as she talks about someone she’s known for 6 months and thinks she might marry:
“I’m worried something is wrong or he’s losing interest in me.” Those are not the words of a confident woman. If they “know” this is “it,” their biggest problem should be picking out a movie they both like, not whether the other partner isn’t attracted to her or lack of interest in sex.

Bet OP is just bad in bed. Lots of women are bad at sex but men have very low standards for sex. It’s the number one reason man move on from a woman.

OP here. Think what you want but the rave reviews on frequency, skill, and willingness to try almost anything say otherwise. We met up for lunch and hung out for a little bit. We stared foooing around and he did oral sex on me, but then said he didn’t want me to reciprocate. I casually asked what was up and if he is bored. He said not at all, and explained that he an infected cyst right by his junk ( on his thigh) that he was embarrassed of me seeing. I don’t care about that, and told him that. Then we had sex. So I was all worried over nothing.

[Anonymous]

Frequency.
Skill.
Willingness.


All other DCUM ladies, please take note.
And to the PP that said she was likely no good in bed, I’d be willing to bet you’d probably eat your hat on that one given the chance.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you smell? Or taste bad?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Something must be seriously wrong if a guy denies sex.

Because they just NEVER ever do.

Mine turns down sex ALL THE TIME. Low drive

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

Fact: You’ve known someone for 6 months.
Fact: You’re having difficulty communicating about sex.
Fact: You’re insecure as you wonder if you’re doing something wrong.
Fact: You’re making life plans with someone you’ve known for six months.

Future fact: Disaster

You’re a moron. Many older couples know what they want in a partner and get married quickly. When you know, you know. OP doesn’t seem insecure at all.

Here let me quote OP exactly as she talks about someone she’s known for 6 months and thinks she might marry:
“I’m worried something is wrong or he’s losing interest in me.” Those are not the words of a confident woman. If they “know” this is “it,” their biggest problem should be picking out a movie they both like, not whether the other partner isn’t attracted to her or lack of interest in sex.

Bet OP is just bad in bed. Lots of women are bad at sex but men have very low standards for sex. It’s the number one reason man move on from a woman.

OP here. Think what you want but the rave reviews on frequency, skill, and willingness to try almost anything say otherwise. We met up for lunch and hung out for a little bit. We stared foooing around and he did oral sex on me, but then said he didn’t want me to reciprocate. I casually asked what was up and if he is bored. He said not at all, and explained that he an infected cyst right by his junk ( on his thigh) that he was embarrassed of me seeing. I don’t care about that, and told him that. Then we had sex. So I was all worried over nothing.

Ha. My DH asks me to pop the big cysts he gets on his thighs. Marriage is sexy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is he cheating and feels too guilty to sleep with you? What kind of work does he do?

Is he cheating and didn't get a chance to clean up?

Or cheated and now is waiting on STD results before having sex with girlfriend again?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

Fact: You’ve known someone for 6 months.
Fact: You’re having difficulty communicating about sex.
Fact: You’re insecure as you wonder if you’re doing something wrong.
Fact: You’re making life plans with someone you’ve known for six months.

Future fact: Disaster

You’re a moron. Many older couples know what they want in a partner and get married quickly. When you know, you know. OP doesn’t seem insecure at all.

Here let me quote OP exactly as she talks about someone she’s known for 6 months and thinks she might marry:
“I’m worried something is wrong or he’s losing interest in me.” Those are not the words of a confident woman. If they “know” this is “it,” their biggest problem should be picking out a movie they both like, not whether the other partner isn’t attracted to her or lack of interest in sex.

Bet OP is just bad in bed. Lots of women are bad at sex but men have very low standards for sex. It’s the number one reason man move on from a woman.

OP here. Think what you want but the rave reviews on frequency, skill, and willingness to try almost anything say otherwise. We met up for lunch and hung out for a little bit. We stared foooing around and he did oral sex on me, but then said he didn’t want me to reciprocate. I casually asked what was up and if he is bored. He said not at all, and explained that he an infected cyst right by his junk ( on his thigh) that he was embarrassed of me seeing. I don’t care about that, and told him that. Then we had sex. So I was all worried over nothing.

Ha. My DH asks me to pop the big cysts he gets on his thighs. Marriage is sexy.

That’s nasty.

[Anonymous]

To recap this thread:
- woman distraught over 3 (!) days of sexual rejection by her man
- on the 4th day, he provides unreciprocated oral sex
- woman STILL not satisfied, demands explanation
- man reveals his legit medical justification, nonetheless proceeds to have sex as she wants
- order is restored as DC women regain their monopoly as sexual refuser

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To recap this thread:
- woman distraught over 3 (!) days of sexual rejection by her man
- on the 4th day, he provides unreciprocated oral sex
- woman STILL not satisfied, demands explanation
- man reveals his legit medical justification, nonetheless proceeds to have sex as she wants
- order is restored as DC women regain their monopoly as sexual refuser

Just get a girlfriend, bro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

OP, from all of your posts, you sound like an 18 year old or just another desperate 31 year old. You've only known him for a little while and you're already insecure about the relationship and whether it will lead to marriage. RELAX!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I had a girls night so we didn’t hang out yesterday, but we hang out frequently. I practically sleep at his house most of the week. I doubt he’s cheating - he’s just not that type. He’s still very affectionate with me even when he says he’s just not up for it that night. He cuddles me on the couch, tells me he loves me, cuddles me in bed. He has a high stress finance job and a huge project deadline coming up. I will talk to him if this keeps happening, but I don’t want to feel like I am pushing him to have sex if he isn’t into it. I am 31 and he’s 34. We have been talking about marriage since 3 months. We both are ready for that step in our lives.

Fact: You’ve known someone for 6 months.
Fact: You’re having difficulty communicating about sex.
Fact: You’re insecure as you wonder if you’re doing something wrong.
Fact: You’re making life plans with someone you’ve known for six months.

Future fact: Disaster

You’re a moron. Many older couples know what they want in a partner and get married quickly. When you know, you know. OP doesn’t seem insecure at all.

Here let me quote OP exactly as she talks about someone she’s known for 6 months and thinks she might marry:
“I’m worried something is wrong or he’s losing interest in me.” Those are not the words of a confident woman. If they “know” this is “it,” their biggest problem should be picking out a movie they both like, not whether the other partner isn’t attracted to her or lack of interest in sex.

Bet OP is just bad in bed. Lots of women are bad at sex but men have very low standards for sex. It’s the number one reason man move on from a woman.

OP here. Think what you want but the rave reviews on frequency, skill, and willingness to try almost anything say otherwise. We met up for lunch and hung out for a little bit. We stared foooing around and he did oral sex on me, but then said he didn’t want me to reciprocate. I casually asked what was up and if he is bored. He said not at all, and explained that he an infected cyst right by his junk ( on his thigh) that he was embarrassed of me seeing. I don’t care about that, and told him that. Then we had sex. So I was all worried over nothing.

Rave reviews? You seem very insecure and immature. Every woman...and I mean EVERY WOMAN receives rave reviews in person from the man that they are screwing. If you really want the truth, find out what he tells his friends.