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Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

For me, the dirtier the better. A lot of “f” words with everything else that goes with that naughty word.

Do you like the word Pu$$y? Just curious because dw likes dirty talk but not that word.

My dw doesn't care for t*ts

Nor mine.

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Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

For me, the dirtier the better. A lot of “f” words with everything else that goes with that naughty word.

Do you like the word Pu$$y? Just curious because dw likes dirty talk but not that word.

My dw doesn't care for t*ts

This is OP. I said in my first post that I use words that I would never think to use otherwise. We grow out of those words when we're 12 but they become a turn on older. With my new SO it's been freeing to be open to just saying whatever in the moment and later its fine then go back to scheduling carpool or PTA meetings.

Anonymous wrote:I'm not one for using dirty words but I'm very good at saying exactly what I want my DH to do to me or what I want to do to him. I'm not sure adding dirty words to it would add anything given that when I say it things get very hot.

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Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

Change locations! My DW is also very conservative but I can bring out her wild side by changing locations. We have a very private back yard and on a nice night a blanket and a bottle of wine turns her into a wild woman. She really loves doing it outdoors as long as we have privacy.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not one for using dirty words but I'm very good at saying exactly what I want my DH to do to me or what I want to do to him. I'm not sure adding dirty words to it would add anything given that when I say it things get very hot.

Wait...how do you tell him exactly what you want him to do without a few choice dirty words?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not one for using dirty words but I'm very good at saying exactly what I want my DH to do to me or what I want to do to him. I'm not sure adding dirty words to it would add anything given that when I say it things get very hot.

Wait...how do you tell him exactly what you want him to do without a few choice dirty words?

Kiss my labia minor !

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Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

Change locations! My DW is also very conservative but I can bring out her wild side by changing locations. We have a very private back yard and on a nice night a blanket and a bottle of wine turns her into a wild woman. She really loves doing it outdoors as long as we have privacy.

On a hot August night , find a putting green on a golf course. Wild wild wild

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not one for using dirty words but I'm very good at saying exactly what I want my DH to do to me or what I want to do to him. I'm not sure adding dirty words to it would add anything given that when I say it things get very hot.

Wait...how do you tell him exactly what you want him to do without a few choice dirty words?

Anonymous wrote:As background. 40yo man. Divorced for two years. I have posted here off and on over the years.

I try to be a kind and respectful man. But in the moment I just lose it and being dirty is fun. (Nice to have a few times a week where I'm not thinking about work or the kids.)

In the moment things that would sound so goofy five minutes later I just feel compelled to say. Does anyone else feel this way? Or have partners like that?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not one for using dirty words but I'm very good at saying exactly what I want my DH to do to me or what I want to do to him. I'm not sure adding dirty words to it would add anything given that when I say it things get very hot.

Wait...how do you tell him exactly what you want him to do without a few choice dirty words?

When I lie on my back and say "pleasure me" he knows exactly what I want. For most of the other fun stuff I just need to assume a certain position and he knows what I want. In other words he is very well trained.