Dirty talk (but still non-explicit)

[Anonymous]

This is so funny. DH and I had a long day yesterday shuttling our kids everywhere. It was exhausting and at around 10:30 we're sitting in the LR watching some dumb movie and I turned to him and said "do you know what I'd really like....for you to f___my brains out". That's not my normal way to initiate romance but it sure worked. We never made it to the bedroom and he definitely did the job. Dirty talk is not my norm but once in a while seems like a very good idea.

[Anonymous]

The brain is our primary sexy organ. Glad so many people enjoy dirty talk. DW and I sure do!

[Anonymous]

*sex organ
Haha

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The brain is our primary sexy organ. Glad so many people enjoy dirty talk. DW and I sure do!

I love man with a big brain! Size matters!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

For me, the dirtier the better. A lot of “f” words with everything else that goes with that naughty word.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

Change locations! My DW is also very conservative but I can bring out her wild side by changing locations. We have a very private back yard and on a nice night a blanket and a bottle of wine turns her into a wild woman. She really loves doing it outdoors as long as we have privacy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

For me, the dirtier the better. A lot of “f” words with everything else that goes with that naughty word.

Do you like the word Pu$$y? Just curious because dw likes dirty talk but not that word.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

Good question, pp!

I statements like "I really liked/can't stop thinking about when you did X or Y last time." And maybe even, "It made me feel ___."

Then you move on to, "I am thinking about ____," and you cam describe any number of things. I love talking about little details. The way someone smells, thry way I feel when they touch me a certain way. Hypotheticals about how some small thing would feel. About thinking about trying things we'vetalked about.

Focus on the little details. Keep it short. Just a few words about what is in your head. That is enough to get your partner thinking about it, too.

[Anonymous]

Oh, and I am definitely vulgar. F-words, a-words. Gives it a bang.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, and I am definitely vulgar. F-words, a-words. Gives it a bang.

Yuck - not me though I don't know why given all the things I enjoy doing in bed. I think if was to drop some F bombs in bed my DH would think I had become possessed. But don't get me wrong - whatever ramps up your sex life is a good thing.

[Anonymous]

I’m a carpool driving, corporate director by day and at night I loooove the dirty talk. The more creative the better.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

For me, the dirtier the better. A lot of “f” words with everything else that goes with that naughty word.

Do you like the word Pu$$y? Just curious because dw likes dirty talk but not that word.

My dw doesn't care for t*ts

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

For me, the dirtier the better. A lot of “f” words with everything else that goes with that naughty word.

Do you like the word Pu$$y? Just curious because dw likes dirty talk but not that word.

My dw doesn't care for t*ts

Nor mine.

[Anonymous]

7:59 again - thanks very much for the responses, this is incredibly helpful. there are times we never make it to the bedroom, and we have had our wildest romps usually in the basement or in the living room. our sex life is pretty good overall (considering we have 3 kids and we both work FT) and I'm always looking for ways to keep the home fires burning hot.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:NP - Very much appreciate the ladies who are chiming in on this topic. So for the women who are 'conservative' during the day but like the dirty talk with your DH or S/O, what more specifically do you enjoy?

I ask as my DW fits with the outwardly conservative persona, but sometimes she's a total beast and I'm wondering what I can do to ensure that I can help bring out this side of her more often (we're both in our mid 40s).

For me, the dirtier the better. A lot of “f” words with everything else that goes with that naughty word.

Do you like the word Pu$$y? Just curious because dw likes dirty talk but not that word.

My dw doesn't care for t*ts

This is OP. I said in my first post that I use words that I would never think to use otherwise. We grow out of those words when we're 12 but they become a turn on older. With my new SO it's been freeing to be open to just saying whatever in the moment and later its fine then go back to scheduling carpool or PTA meetings.