S/O Why DO you cheat

Anonymous
I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.


I cheated on my bf and ex-DH because I wanted desperately to get out of the relationships, but was too anxious to actually talk about why I wanted out. Regret hurting their feelings, but I don't regret getting out of the relationships.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.


wow that's sad, most married men are once every two weeks maybe once a week even though they want it more and are told to take care of it themselves
Anonymous
For the nookie.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.


LOL. you're such a needy baby that you have to run around with other men because you only get laid once every other week? good god, get it together.
Anonymous
you really should just divorced op.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:you really should just divorced op.


Agree. Cheating in year one? You are not meant for married life. Get out.
Anonymous
I cheat because I want to experience a squirter.
Anonymous
For the excitement of the hunt (I'm a man). The sex itself I don't even care much about. As I've entered my 40's, my libido has dropped big-time.

Lately I"ll just flirt with women when on a business trip, but never take it beyond that. I just don't care about the physial stuff much any more.
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OP - I'm sorry your needs aren't being met even though you've clearly stated them to your (soon-to-be-ex)DH. Best of luck in the future
Anonymous
I'm now divorced ( I filed) because we never had sex. We were still young and he was happy with twice a week. I didn't want to cheat anymore and ended the marriage.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.


wow that's sad, most married men are once every two weeks maybe once a week even though they want it more and are told to take care of it themselves


That's not true. Most are once a week and happy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.


wow that's sad, most married men are once every two weeks maybe once a week even though they want it more and are told to take care of it themselves


That's not true. Most are once a week and happy.


I doubt either of you know what most married men are getting or wanting.

Please don't speak for most men. Especially if you are a woman.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.


wow that's sad, most married men are once every two weeks maybe once a week even though they want it more and are told to take care of it themselves


That's not true. Most are once a week and happy.


I doubt either of you know what most married men are getting or wanting.

Please don't speak for most men. Especially if you are a woman.


You should really try google.

What's even funnier, in a study men were asked "rate your satisfactions with marital sex most men get it once a week" and they are getting it twice a week they rate their sex life high. If the questions is "rate your satisfactions with marital sex most men get it once a day" and they are getting it twice a week they rate their sex life low.

Men are so simple. Yea... but most men were happy with once a week when not toyed with in the question.

No, I'm not linking the study, google it.

Anonymous
op you're cheating and you haven't even been married for a year?? Why on EARTH are you staying married??
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