S/O Why DO you cheat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm now divorced ( I filed) because we never had sex. We were still young and he was happy with twice a week. I didn't want to cheat anymore and ended the marriage.

???

[Anonymous]

I should have said rarely instead of never. Mea culpa

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm now divorced ( I filed) because we never had sex. We were still young and he was happy with twice a week. I didn't want to cheat anymore and ended the marriage.

???

Yeah, that PP was all over the place. Made no sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm now divorced ( I filed) because we never had sex. We were still young and he was happy with twice a week. I didn't want to cheat anymore and ended the marriage.

???

Yeah, that PP was all over the place. Made no sense.

2x per week = no sex for some people

There are a ton of posters that call their marriage sexless then confess it's once a week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.

Once every two weeks is not “lack of sex.” Less than a year? You are a mess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.

LOL. you're such a needy baby that you have to run around with other men because you only get laid once every other week? good god, get it together.

+10000

[Anonymous]

Husband stopped having sex or even touching me. Counseling didn't work. His own therapy didn't work. He only wants me once I give up and start enjoying life with friends, hobbies, etc. So I'll tet with him and it'll happen for a month or two, he rejects me again, and the cycle repeats. After years of counseling I gave up. My therapist says he won't change so stay if I want but understand he'll keep doing this control ploy.

Our child likes his life and having two parents and we don't fight and my husband won't give me an open marriage (takes away his power to control by stringing me along) so I have a lover.

[Anonymous]

^^that's "try" with him

[Anonymous]

^^that's "try" with him

[Anonymous]

I'd be ecstatic with once every two week; try once a month .

We are in are mid-30's btw.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.

wow that's sad, most married men are once every two weeks maybe once a week even though they want it more and are told to take care of it themselves

That's not true. Most are once a week and happy.

I doubt either of you know what most married men are getting or wanting.

Please don't speak for most men. Especially if you are a woman.

You should really try google.

What's even funnier, in a study men were asked "rate your satisfactions with marital sex most men get it once a week" and they are getting it twice a week they rate their sex life high. If the questions is "rate your satisfactions with marital sex most men get it once a day" and they are getting it twice a week they rate their sex life low.

Men are so simple. Yea... but most men were happy with once a week when not toyed with in the question.

No, I'm not linking the study, google it.

Studies about sex and cheating are notoriously inaccurate.

BTW, "rate your satisfaction with martial sex most men get it once a week" isn't a question. Not sure how they could be asked something so unintelligible.

[Anonymous]

I am not a cheater even though I could have been with my mentally sick x-husband for 10 years. No sex for 5 years, and I am high drive. Mentally, I shut my body down. Like a previous poster, I have integrity. I don’t care if that is not the norm.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.

Why don’t you break up with him before you have any children? Instead of cheating on him why don’t you just get divorced? Seriously. I don’t understand this. Divorce the guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I posted the wrong information in the thread "Why Don't You Cheat", but I do so here it is.



I'm a DW and cheat due to the lack of sex DH and I are having. We've only been married for a little less than a year, but our dating occasions were fine. Sex happens maybe once every two weeks and I need it at least twice a week. I've expressed to DH that I can work with once a week and still nothing.

He doesn't know I'm sleeping around though.

Why don’t you break up with him before you have any children? Instead of cheating on him why don’t you just get divorced? Seriously. I don’t understand this. Divorce the guy.

Agreed. I did this with my first husband and luckily my lover told me to leave him. I did, we divorced 11 months after the marriage. It was all a big mistake. The lover and I stayed friends for awhile then it was over, I don’t think he knows that even to this day I thank him for encouraging me to change the road my life was on. Get out while you are still young.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be ecstatic with once every two week; try once a month .

We are in are mid-30's btw.

Sad, we are at least once a week, often twice, and we are in our early 60's. I don't think this is much different than when we were in our mid-30's but life was far more hectic then with three young children.