How much of your relationship is good versus bad?

Anonymous
And how long have you been married/together, and do you plan to stay?

I would say 60% good/ 40% bad. 8 years married, and I don't have plans to leave, yet.
Anonymous
90 good, 5 ok, 5 bad

Married 5 years, 2 yr old and 3 month old
Anonymous
98% good, 2% bad

Married 10 years, absolutely no plans to leave. That 2% drives me batty sometimes though! (It's where DH can't communicate with his parents even simple issues)
Anonymous
98% good and 2% to work on. But we are different people with different needs so we compromise or drive Easley their batty in the 2%. Keeps it interesting.
Married 5 years. One toddler and dh deployed. It’ll be in when he comes back
Anonymous
90% good/great, 5% needs improvement, 5% I just let it pass. We've been married 31 years and I really have no complaints. In terms of the 5% that I let pass, I know he's not going to change and if he really tried to it might backfire on the 90% that's good/great.
Anonymous
I'd say it's 99.5% good.

Married nine years, two kids.
Anonymous
I would say 75 good, 25 bad. 51, 3 kids, married 17 years. Happy kids, good jobs, loving home for the kids. Sex life has pretty much stopped. That is the bad
Anonymous
98% great, 2% really bad. 25 years.
Anonymous
Together 14 years, married 10.

85% good, 13% not great, 2% really bad.
Anonymous
Married 15 years. 85% good, 10% ok, 5% bad.
Anonymous
Together 11 years, married for 2, 95% great, 5% good. 1 kid and one on way. We over communicate so even fights tend to end fine.
Anonymous
90% good, 10% bad

50, divorcing... he cheated and if he needs something better than 90% then bye Felicia.
cba
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Married 16 years with 3 kids,

I'd say it's about a 50/50 split.
Anonymous
This thread is encouraging, and also affirms that I made the right decision by leaving my husband. It was probably 10% good, 20% tolerable, and 70% bad.
Anonymous
70% Great, 20% average, 10% bad/really annoying

Mid 40’s, married 7 (together 9), 1 toddler
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