82 % good, 18 % bad. Married 35 years. |
Sadly, 80% bad 20% good. The reality is my wife and I are essentially roommates raising a kid. |
I would say our split is 65% good, 35% bad....BUT the good is REALLY REALLY amazingly great and the bad is REALLY REALLY bad....there is no real middle ground with us, its all or nothing, lol.
We have off the chart chemistry and passion and I know for a fact that we do really love and care about one another. He makes me laugh, understands me more than anyone I have ever met, and we view each other as best friend. I have the most fun when I am with him. We are both stubborn as hell, passionate, and struggle with effective communication. I have days where I wonder if we should stay together, but I have been in other relationships where the split was more favorable, but I honestly was bored and eventually felt like I needed more emotionally. The good times keep me around and I can't imagine my life without him. We have been together for 5 years. |