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Anonymous wrote:First, I have no interest in going to a strip club. If I want to see a naked woman and "achieve a degree of sexual satisfaction" I can do that at home though not every night.
Second, if I suggested it to her she would look at me and ask "WTF? Am I not enough for you?"

Woman here. I'm more than happy to give my DH a lap dance though technically its referred to as a cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. I do think it would be interesting to go to a strip club and watch the customers and not the girls. Who are these people, why are they there, don't they have anything better to do? Yuck!

Oh please, stop clutching your pearls. You really wonder why men want to look at naked women? Oh gosh, what might be the appeal?

This is going to shock you, but here goes: the men who would want to look at naked, young women, other than their wives, include your pastor, your kid's teacher, the local cop, your dad and your son and your husband. Basically, all men.

Uh, no. Not all men want to look at naked women.

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Anonymous wrote:Deep down you know that these women are not only not turned on by you but actively despise you.

Yup. I like naked women plenty, but this is why I don't care for strip clubs.

Man here who likes strip clubs.

I am under no illusion these women desire me. However, I know they would prefer to dance for me than either sit around making no money or dance for the creeper who hasn't showered in a while.

I assume you are under no illusion that your masseuse actually wants to rub your body. Or your lawyer enjoys talking to you, or your car mechanic loves working on your car.

It's a profession. I know I am paying them for their time. But just like your lawyer, doctor, masseuse, they also appreciate respectful customers that enjoy themselves, follow the rules and tip generously.

It's a business.

Anonymous wrote:Strip Club? If I want to give money to a woman I can't have sex with then I can just stay home. That's want living with my wife is, minus the lap dance.