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Anonymous wrote:Ladies who met their man on Bumble, what did your profile say? What do you say in your messagings to your matches? Was this recently? I joined 2 weeks ago, and match people, and start a convo, but then it’s crickets.

I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong??

Ask a guy, your brother, a girfriend's husband, to look at your profile.

Not a bad idea

High chance that he will give you an anodyne white knight "you're beautiful and perfect" answer rather than the honest truth.

Post your profile on the bumble subreddit and you'll get a better critique.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/

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Anonymous wrote:The mid-50s dad talking about "girls" on apps is vomitous.

Why Do You think so?

As another PP said... "The amount of angry, over 40 women in here is over the top."

Nothing triggers the bitter old harpies like the idea of older men dating younger women.

There are older men that are able to date younger women, the vast majority of men are not able to do this without transferring some incentive to the younger women. I went on a date with a guy 16 years older than me. He had dated someone 17 years younger before but it was while he was in a third world country. He thought he could successfully do that in DC . . . nope, the liver spots, trembling voice, and wrinkles weren't going to get it. He was just clueless.

Anonymous wrote:I wrote the vomitous response.

BECAUSE a dad in his mid 50s using the term "girls" is entirely inappropriate. Is he talking about college-aged females? Those are called women. Is he talking about high school girls under 18. That's illegal.

Thus the nausea.

No one cares if you are dating women in their late 20s or 30s. They are not "girls" though. Grow. UP.

I feel sorry for your kids, and any woman who dates you.

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Anonymous wrote:Men over 40 in tinder or any of these sites at all, no matter what they look like or how successful they are, have one thing on their mind. You don't know who they really are. I have found out. If they are really single. .if their names are really their names, even if you go on a date with them, every thing they are telling you, is a lie, and they have a wife across town waiting on them. Or they want to get on cams. Dominate you. Then their are those that even pretend at the whole Master/Sub thing. They are going thru the change of life. I know fron personal experience. I caught my husband doing all of it. He said he was 40 and he's 49. . Not married. Ha! Used a different name. A different town, wanted cams, dominate. Ladies ...... BEWARE

PP, sounds crazy, but my now exDH was also online dating and lying extensively about his marital status and true interests.... makes me very wary of online dating...

LOL and women neeeeeeever lie about themselves in their online profiles.

Usually, their lies start before they write a single word - i.e., with their photos.

Anonymous wrote:I'm a 44 yo guy and use tinder to score hookups with 20/30 yo women. Found my current FB on there. It's a good time to be an employed single guy!

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Anonymous wrote:Men over 40 in tinder or any of these sites at all, no matter what they look like or how successful they are, have one thing on their mind. You don't know who they really are. I have found out. If they are really single. .if their names are really their names, even if you go on a date with them, every thing they are telling you, is a lie, and they have a wife across town waiting on them. Or they want to get on cams. Dominate you. Then their are those that even pretend at the whole Master/Sub thing. They are going thru the change of life. I know fron personal experience. I caught my husband doing all of it. He said he was 40 and he's 49. . Not married. Ha! Used a different name. A different town, wanted cams, dominate. Ladies ...... BEWARE

Well gee you should have let him make videos of him dominating you at home and then he wouldn't have needed to go get young strange.

Anonymous wrote:After my divorce at 45 I used Tinder with great success. I wasn’t looking for a LTR, I just wanted to have fun. What really worked for me in my profile was being honest and saying I was interested in women in my age range and not young hotties. The level of interest was amazing because every 40 year old was happy to find someone their age and not a 60 year old.

Anonymous wrote:After my divorce at 45 I used Tinder with great success. I wasn’t looking for a LTR, I just wanted to have fun. What really worked for me in my profile was being honest and saying I was interested in women in my age range and not young hotties. The level of interest was amazing because every 40 year old was happy to find someone their age and not a 60 year old.

Anonymous wrote:Men over 40 in tinder or any of these sites at all, no matter what they look like or how successful they are, have one thing on their mind. You don't know who they really are. I have found out. If they are really single. .if their names are really their names, even if you go on a date with them, every thing they are telling you, is a lie, and they have a wife across town waiting on them. Or they want to get on cams. Dominate you. Then their are those that even pretend at the whole Master/Sub thing. They are going thru the change of life. I know fron personal experience. I caught my husband doing all of it. He said he was 40 and he's 49. . Not married. Ha! Used a different name. A different town, wanted cams, dominate. Ladies ...... BEWARE