Anyone over 40 succesfuly meet on apps like "Hinge" or "Tinder"

[Anonymous]

This episode of Netflix's Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On (sounds dirty but it's not - about the impact of technology on the world of love & sex) is really enlightening. "Love Me Tinder - Episode 2
https://www.netflix.com/title/80115676

40 year old spending lots of time on Tinder, basically can't form a meaningful relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not over 40, but met my current bf on Tinder - we've been together for 2 years now and about to move in together (currently 36; he's 33).

Don't move in together.

+1000

Don't move in together. It'll slow down your progress to the altar. Put a ring it.

NEVER move in with someone if you're 36 and hoping to marry. A 33yo guy has several years before he's got to start making marriage decisions and you, at 36yo, do not.

I married DH when I was 35 and he was 33. We lived together before getting married. He was ready.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men over 40 in tinder or any of these sites at all, no matter what they look like or how successful they are, have one thing on their mind. You don't know who they really are. I have found out. If they are really single. .if their names are really their names, even if you go on a date with them, every thing they are telling you, is a lie, and they have a wife across town waiting on them. Or they want to get on cams. Dominate you. Then their are those that even pretend at the whole Master/Sub thing. They are going thru the change of life. I know fron personal experience. I caught my husband doing all of it. He said he was 40 and he's 49. . Not married. Ha! Used a different name. A different town, wanted cams, dominate. Ladies ...... BEWARE

Well gee you should have let him make videos of him dominating you at home and then he wouldn't have needed to go get young strange.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not over 40, but met my current bf on Tinder - we've been together for 2 years now and about to move in together (currently 36; he's 33).

Don't move in together.

+1000

Don't move in together. It'll slow down your progress to the altar. Put a ring it.

NEVER move in with someone if you're 36 and hoping to marry. A 33yo guy has several years before he's got to start making marriage decisions and you, at 36yo, do not.

I married DH when I was 35 and he was 33. We lived together before getting married. He was ready.

Moved in with my 28 yo bf when I was 33. We married 3 yrs later. Been married 17 years!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:like meet someone to really date seriously .....or are these just for young people to hook up?

Personally I am using some of those apps and sites only for hookups. My lifestyle And there I am meeting sometime younger people what is very let say pleasant to me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:has anyone used sites like milfaholic or localmilfselfies? I found these emails in my spam folder the other day and am curious to know if they are a total scam or worth the hassle of a few dollars.

oh yeah, all day long. awesome sites. well worth every single penny. i recommend you link directly to your checking/savings account.

[Anonymous]

Don't move in together. It'll slow down your progress to the altar. Put a ring it

Dumb dumb dumb. Go back to worrying about cows and free milk off the internet.

I lived with my girlfriend for several months before marrying. Wonderful learning experience. If I hadn't decided I enjoyed cohabitating with her, it would have been kinda stupid to marry her, ya know?

[Anonymous]

Hinge was full of fake profiles. Tinder was ok; do suspect some were married.

All guys seem to lie about their age and they all seem to be into BDSM, across all the apps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men over 40 in tinder or any of these sites at all, no matter what they look like or how successful they are, have one thing on their mind. You don't know who they really are. I have found out. If they are really single. .if their names are really their names, even if you go on a date with them, every thing they are telling you, is a lie, and they have a wife across town waiting on them. Or they want to get on cams. Dominate you. Then their are those that even pretend at the whole Master/Sub thing. They are going thru the change of life. I know fron personal experience. I caught my husband doing all of it. He said he was 40 and he's 49. . Not married. Ha! Used a different name. A different town, wanted cams, dominate. Ladies ...... BEWARE

BEWARE of people that can't figure out their, there and they're too and make wild generalizations about men. Project much?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men over 40 in tinder or any of these sites at all, no matter what they look like or how successful they are, have one thing on their mind. You don't know who they really are. I have found out. If they are really single. .if their names are really their names, even if you go on a date with them, every thing they are telling you, is a lie, and they have a wife across town waiting on them. Or they want to get on cams. Dominate you. Then their are those that even pretend at the whole Master/Sub thing. They are going thru the change of life. I know fron personal experience. I caught my husband doing all of it. He said he was 40 and he's 49. . Not married. Ha! Used a different name. A different town, wanted cams, dominate. Ladies ...... BEWARE

PP, sounds crazy, but my now exDH was also online dating and lying extensively about his marital status and true interests.... makes me very wary of online dating...

[Anonymous]

I'm 40 (divorced man) and it has worked great. Have met women who to women who became serious GFs for about six months (broke up when we realized long-term marriage wouldn't work) and hookups in between.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men over 40 in tinder or any of these sites at all, no matter what they look like or how successful they are, have one thing on their mind. You don't know who they really are. I have found out. If they are really single. .if their names are really their names, even if you go on a date with them, every thing they are telling you, is a lie, and they have a wife across town waiting on them. Or they want to get on cams. Dominate you. Then their are those that even pretend at the whole Master/Sub thing. They are going thru the change of life. I know fron personal experience. I caught my husband doing all of it. He said he was 40 and he's 49. . Not married. Ha! Used a different name. A different town, wanted cams, dominate. Ladies ...... BEWARE

That thing is on their mind because their wives are denying it to them.

Since these men are able to attract other women, that indicates the problem is not at their end.

Wives, do better!

Though I guess it's really hard to go from dom / sub in the bedroom to
"Larlo, take out the trash for God's sake!"
"Yes, dear."
outside the bedroom...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men over 40 in tinder or any of these sites at all, no matter what they look like or how successful they are, have one thing on their mind. You don't know who they really are. I have found out. If they are really single. .if their names are really their names, even if you go on a date with them, every thing they are telling you, is a lie, and they have a wife across town waiting on them. Or they want to get on cams. Dominate you. Then their are those that even pretend at the whole Master/Sub thing. They are going thru the change of life. I know fron personal experience. I caught my husband doing all of it. He said he was 40 and he's 49. . Not married. Ha! Used a different name. A different town, wanted cams, dominate. Ladies ...... BEWARE

PP, sounds crazy, but my now exDH was also online dating and lying extensively about his marital status and true interests.... makes me very wary of online dating...

LOL and women neeeeeeever lie about themselves in their online profiles.

Usually, their lies start before they write a single word - i.e., with their photos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Don't move in together. It'll slow down your progress to the altar. Put a ring it

Dumb dumb dumb. Go back to worrying about cows and free milk off the internet.

I lived with my girlfriend for several months before marrying. Wonderful learning experience. If I hadn't decided I enjoyed cohabitating with her, it would have been kinda stupid to marry her, ya know?

It was stupid to marry her anyway. You'll realize this when the sex inevitably dries up.

[Anonymous]

Mid-50s divorced dad here. Did Bumble and Tinder, got lots of dates, and I am now off the apps and in a serious relationship (I met her on Bumble). If it doesn't work out with her, I have a number of backup girls I met on Bumble and Tinder I can get together with.