Cheap husband?

She is Asian....Chinese or Vietnamese. The evidence is right there - her writing. While I agree most Asian women are good homemakers, some are controlling and selfish - especially in second marriages.

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03/08/2017 10:40

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Guerita32
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You are mean.

You are picking apart what he eats?

You're mean!

profile p.m.

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03/08/2017 11:02

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Anonymous

You two sound perfect together.

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03/08/2017 11:04

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Anonymous

DTMFA

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03/08/2017 11:13

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Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:Question is - why are you guys doing this? Is money super tight? Is there some fear that you'll divorce so both of you are trying to maximize your own bank accounts by contributing as little to your current family? Bc if this is the fear - get a post nup setting out who gets what. Then set up a joint household account and decide what amount each of you will kick in for household expenses monthly. It should be 50-50 since you have the same income. That's used for food, utilities, household bills, furniture, dining out. None of this - well you ate a tub of yogurt and my son ate 1 bite so you pay. Once the money in that account is gone, no one gets more yogurt. I can see keeping car payments separate and large (like over $500) kid expenses separate since there must be child support; so this way he's not paying for your kids braces and you're not buying his kids clarinet. But if you have a kid together - all those expenses come out of the above mentioned joint account.

This is the only way to do it in this situation. But, you have to think about how your finances may change down the road and have the split be dependent upon your incomes. What if his income increases and you step back for a bit if you have a baby? in that case you shouldn't still be on the hook for 50%.

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03/08/2017 14:16

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Anonymous

Da F? either get married or don't. Why are you splitting a grocery bill if you are married.

I think there should be two different levels of marriage and you should have choose when you get your marriage license.

Type one you are Married and accept all that encompasses.

Type two would be marriage lite, split all the bills, live like roommates and you are contractually FWBs that may entail having kids.

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03/08/2017 14:24

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Anonymous

What happens when one of your gets sick and can't work? Will you go into debt to the other? This is ridiculous, and the tit for tat will never work.

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03/08/2017 14:30

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Anonymous

Good news OP: he is 7 years older than you, a big eater, and presumably overweight. He's going to have a massive heart attack one day, and you'll inherit the house, insurance policy, 401k, and whatever other assets he has. I'm going to estimate a minimum $750,000 payout for you.

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03/08/2017 14:32

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you an Asian woman married to a white?

haha what a joke. Asian woman will never do this

Asian women feed everyone - no joke. It is uncultural to be considering how much yogurt your DH ate vs. how much your son had.

I think what the PP is suggesting is that Asian women wouldn't be paying for their husband. The stereotype is that Asian women look for rich husbands so that they don't have to pay for anything, period.