Anonymous wrote:...text you back?

Met a woman at a grocery store saturday early evening, we chatted, i told her we should continue this over drinks sometime - she says sure, here's my number....
i text her the next evening saying 'hey it's larlo from last night at the grocery store..good weekend?...let's meet up for drinks sometime on weds or thurs".

no response.

a friend of mine said i should've texted her later on saturday night and by sunday evening it was too late.

I hate to say this - but she may just not be interested. I don't think that period of time is too long - or even too short. Quite frankly - I think that people who wait 3 days or whatever the trendy wait time is these days are ridiculous anyways. Why start a relationship with games? If you like someone - text them/call them and let them know - don't get wrapped up in your head. If they think you were needy or desperate for contacting them too soon - is this really the person you want to be with?

I think sometimes - just be you, be real, and those who want to be with you will be with you and those who don't - they have that right to make that decision too. But - you will find the right one - just be patient.

Anonymous wrote:...text you back?

Met a woman at a grocery store saturday early evening, we chatted, i told her we should continue this over drinks sometime - she says sure, here's my number....
i text her the next evening saying 'hey it's larlo from last night at the grocery store..good weekend?...let's meet up for drinks sometime on weds or thurs".

no response.

a friend of mine said i should've texted her later on saturday night and by sunday evening it was too late.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Definitely send a dick pic.

There must be something creepier than that he can do.

Anonymous wrote:

I hate to say this - but she may just not be interested. I don't think that period of time is too long - or even too short. Quite frankly - I think that people who wait 3 days or whatever the trendy wait time is these days are ridiculous anyways. Why start a relationship with games? If you like someone - text them/call them and let them know - don't get wrapped up in your head. If they think you were needy or desperate for contacting them too soon - is this really the person you want to be with?

I think sometimes - just be you, be real, and those who want to be with you will be with you and those who don't - they have that right to make that decision too. But - you will find the right one - just be patient.

14:48 again. This is really good advice. I will add, spend less time trying to pick people up in supermarkets, etc. and get more socially involved. Go to church, volunteer, join a book club. Give others a chance to get to know you just a little bit in a safe space (I hate that expression but it works here). Good luck to you, OP.