Just aks your wife to stop doing that. |
It could be unintentional. I work at a company with 90% Indians, and friends and family have pointed out I now do the head bobble. Not joking. |
OP here. Had a Halloween party and several of the young women from the office came. It was as if they were trying to compete to see who could do the most uptalk and most pronounced vocal fry. My wife was really getting in the action, trying to string words out for as long as possible so she could get that fry effect. |
OP are you in the DC area? |
Gay men do it too. |
You mean like the habit of lots of people have of starting every sentence with sooo? |
That's not really it. Up talk is ending nearly every sentence with the same inflection as if it were a question, when it's not. If I said, "you know what I mean?" That would be appropriate to end with a bit of an up note, as it is a question. But really annoying people end any sentence, or all sentences with the same questioning inflection, when there is no question. It sounds like they are questioning themselves. Listen to Kato Kaelin, OJ Simpson's housemate talking. He can't talk at all without doing it and it makes him sound like such an idiot. Vocal fry is totally different, but just as annoying. It's a kind of "frying," if you will, of usually the last word. But it could could be the first or any other word in a sentence. Like the boss in, Office Space." Yeahhhhhh, if you could just go ahead and come ...Sunday also, that would be Greaaaattt. Porn stars do it too because someone told them it's supposed to sound sexy. The lead girl character on "Mr. Robot" does it also. His sister, I forget the name. |
Ugh. You must not have had sex that night. What a turn-off. At least she hasn't started talking that way in bed. "Oh that feels so good??? Ohhhhhhhhh. Whhaaaaasssst? Take my braaaaaaassss off?" |