Sad Birthday

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[Post New]12/20/2015 00:34
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Anonymous
OP: They knew. They were talking for weeks about how i'd be 50. they were just busy, i guess.
[Post New]12/20/2015 00:57
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Anonymous
If they knew that is very shameful. My husband sometimes forgets but I don't like counting birthdays anymore so it doesn't bother me. When he doesn't forget I get a pretty cake and flowers.

It's funny but it bothers me when my kids forget. Like last year. And Mother's Day. And Thanksgiving. Probably Christmas.

So this year I decided to forget them so they can feel the love too. Today one had a birthday. I did nothing. Another coming soon. I will do nothing.

Buy yourself something to remember 50 and forget their birthdays this year.

[Post New]12/20/2015 16:33
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Anonymous
I'm sorry, OP, that sucks.

Teenagers of 14 and 17 are super self-absorbed. I know that's probably not much consolation to you. But please don't take this as an omen about how much you'll mean to them forevermore.

Happy Birthday!!!
[Post New]12/20/2015 16:38
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP: It was 50th birthday and everyone knew. Kids are between 14 and 17 and all know how to buy a card and a gift. Its not like they didn't get me cards and a crappy gift. Apparently they have them but still have not given them to me 6 days later. They just have not found the time, though they have plenty of time to shop and play videos on their damn computers and phones. Honestly, I don't really care much for birthdays, and did not expect much. But, for a 50th birthday, a card and even a token gift on or near my birthday would have been nice.


I don't know that the kids really get that 50 is a milestone bday.
[Post New]12/20/2015 16:40
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Anonymous
Did they take you out for dinner?
[Post New]12/20/2015 17:09
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Anonymous
They know it's a milestone. My 8 year old knows this. They sound selfish. Are they always like this? That is unfortunate for their future families.

Go out with your best friend or other friends. Write all three of them letters as pp mentioned.
[Post New]12/20/2015 18:05
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DS63
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sorry.
[Post New]12/20/2015 19:22
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Anonymous
My husband's birthday is tomorrow, on the 21st. We have been joking the last couple of years that we should actually celebrate his birthday on June 21st, when the weather is warm, BBQs and the pool can be had, and other things. Right around Christmas, no one is ever in town. He gets really bummed out. I have been trying to make it what I can the past few years, but it is also a day that becomes a flashpoint with his dad for various reasons, and we have three little kids, so it is always so chaotic and he and I can't get away as well. So maybe just try having it at a time when things aren't quite so emotional and bogged down in the holidays?
[Post New]12/20/2015 19:32
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Anonymous
Sorry OP. I would consider telling them that you are hurt there were no gifts or cards to celebrate.

Agree that kids are self absorbed at that point, but still, if you went out to dinner, I would think they would at least hand you a couple presents.
[Post New]12/20/2015 19:40
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Anonymous
What if you take away their phones and unplug their computers and announce "I'm ready for my card and crappy gifts now!". Buy like one slice of cake and proceed to eat it yourself in case they don't respond. If they ask where their cake is, say "If you wanted cake, you could have baked one."
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