Men: Is this your ideal night?
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Anonymous
You sound more like a combo hooker/maid than a girlfriend. Are you from another country/culture? |
Anonymous
| I bet he makes a lot more money than you. Am I right? |
Anonymous
| So if you marry, you are prepared to do all of the childcare and work around the house while he rests over the weekend, right? Because that's what you're setting up. |
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OP here. Some of these comments are brutal. No I not from a different culture, we make about the same level of pay ( h is a few grand over me) and I
not desperate. I've always been the type to take care of someone. I love doing it. It's not all one-sided and he has done a lot more for me than I have for him. Also I do not do this type of treatment all the time. This is the second weekend so far. He loved it! I know the stocking the fridge and doing laundry aren't required and sex and dinner would be enough but, he works up to 90 hour weeks at times. I don't want him to have to stress out about the little things. |
Anonymous
+1 You say he does a lot for you. What exactly? |
Anonymous
| Sounds like you're on the fast-track to doormat. I imagine we'll see you back here in a few years complaining about how your husband does jack to help around the house and with the kids and you have no idea how this happened. Newsflash: this is how it happens. |
Anonymous
True, but not smart to do laundry and cleaning for him! |
Anonymous
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Oh stop it people!
She sounds like a perfectly nice GF who wants to make her man happy. What's so wrong with that? |
Anonymous
I think the critical posters are envious. Who tears apart nice gestures? |
Anonymous
Envious of what? OP has told us absolutely nothing about what her boyfriend does to reciprocate her (over-the-top) gestures of kindness. I'm certainly not envious of a woman who posts anonymously seeking validation for being her boyfriend's maid/cook/sub. |
Anonymous
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Sounds perfect to me.
Don't forget the candles and the "Do Not Disturb" sign on the door. Lol. |
Anonymous
Hooker? PP, that sounds like someone from your country and culture! |
FruminousBandersnatch
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OP, as a guy, that sounds like a fantastic surprise and I would love to come home to that.
Some have said that it sounds like you're going over the top. Only you can really judge how much giving you're doing in the relationship and how much your needs are being taken care of. As long as you feel it's equitable and you're not feeling resentful that you give so much and he doesn't seem to give back in the ways that are important to you, then go for it and enjoy it. |
Anonymous
| I think it's weird that you went into his apartment when he wasn't there. That's creepy. |
Anonymous
| OP, are you a 24 year old interior designer by any chance? |