Men: Is this your ideal night?

[Anonymous]

OP here again. My guy appreciates what I do and that is all that matters. We have a very equal and loving relationship. I am not a doormat. As I stated, I have only done this type of treatment like 2 times before. My boyfriend doesn't think it's creepy for me to go over there when he isn't home. He hates laundry and I do it for him. He has and continues to do so much for me. He gave me $12,000 to borrow to pay off my student loans, I hate dishes and he does it for me whenever possible. He cooks often for me, picks up groceries if he is out and I have a busy week ( he goes into my apt too) and much more. He motivates me daily, values my opinions, etc. Last week my "red friend" came in to town while I was at his place. He could see how much pain and knows I use certain things during that time. Without asking he told me he had a quick errand to run. Came back with tampons, heating pad things, and my favorite chocolate. He has done that on more than one occasion. No matter how tired he is, he will do a surprise pickup if I'm working late because he hates me being out alone at that hour. Those are just a few things he does for me.

I feel most of the negative comments are from men who jealous they don't have this or from lazy women who are too self-absorbed and selfish to be nice. Mostly old boring housewives whose husbands are probably cheating on them or pay no attention to them. They are men hating shrewds! There are other nice gestures than spreading your legs or opening your mouth ladies! Or maye you would keep a good guy if you did that more than once a year.

[Anonymous]

"Red friend"? What are you 19?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Red friend"? What are you 19?

Also lol at "shrewds". I might use that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. My guy appreciates what I do and that is all that matters. We have a very equal and loving relationship. I am not a doormat. As I stated, I have only done this type of treatment like 2 times before. My boyfriend doesn't think it's creepy for me to go over there when he isn't home. He hates laundry and I do it for him. He has and continues to do so much for me. He gave me $12,000 to borrow to pay off my student loans, I hate dishes and he does it for me whenever possible. He cooks often for me, picks up groceries if he is out and I have a busy week ( he goes into my apt too) and much more. He motivates me daily, values my opinions, etc. Last week my "red friend" came in to town while I was at his place. He could see how much pain and knows I use certain things during that time. Without asking he told me he had a quick errand to run. Came back with tampons, heating pad things, and my favorite chocolate. He has done that on more than one occasion. No matter how tired he is, he will do a surprise pickup if I'm working late because he hates me being out alone at that hour. Those are just a few things he does for me.

I feel most of the negative comments are from men who jealous they don't have this or from lazy women who are too self-absorbed and selfish to be nice. Mostly old boring housewives whose husbands are probably cheating on them or pay no attention to them. They are men hating shrewds! There are other nice gestures than spreading your legs or opening your mouth ladies! Or maye you would keep a good guy if you did that more than once a year.

Now I understand your relationship, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. My guy appreciates what I do and that is all that matters. We have a very equal and loving relationship. I am not a doormat. As I stated, I have only done this type of treatment like 2 times before. My boyfriend doesn't think it's creepy for me to go over there when he isn't home.[b] He hates laundry and I do it for him. He has and continues to do so much for me. He gave me $12,000 to borrow to pay off my student loans, I hate dishes and he does it for me whenever possible. He cooks often for me, picks up groceries if he is out and I have a busy week ( he goes into my apt too) and much more. He motivates me daily, values my opinions, etc. Last week my "red friend" came in to town while I was at his place. He could see how much pain and knows I use certain things during that time. Without asking he told me he had a quick errand to run. Came back with tampons, heating pad things, and my favorite chocolate. He has done that on more than one occasion. No matter how tired he is, he will do a surprise pickup if I'm working late because he hates me being out alone at that hour. Those are just a few things he does for me.

I feel most of the negative comments are from men who jealous they don't have this or from lazy women who are too self-absorbed and selfish to be nice. Mostly old boring housewives whose husbands are probably cheating on them or pay no attention to them. They are men hating shrewds! There are other nice gestures than spreading your legs or opening your mouth ladies! Or maye you would keep a good guy if you did that more than once a year.

If you know your boyfriend appreciates your over-the-top creepy 12-year old antics and "that's all that matters", then why the hell are you on an online forum asking if dudes would like this type of treatment?

[Anonymous]

You're laying it on a little thick OP. If you're going to post MUD you have to be a bit more subtle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. My guy appreciates what I do and that is all that matters. We have a very equal and loving relationship. I am not a doormat. As I stated, I have only done this type of treatment like 2 times before. My boyfriend doesn't think it's creepy for me to go over there when he isn't home. He hates laundry and I do it for him. He has and continues to do so much for me. He gave me $12,000 to borrow to pay off my student loans, I hate dishes and he does it for me whenever possible. He cooks often for me, picks up groceries if he is out and I have a busy week ( he goes into my apt too) and much more. He motivates me daily, values my opinions, etc. Last week my "red friend" came in to town while I was at his place. He could see how much pain and knows I use certain things during that time. Without asking he told me he had a quick errand to run. Came back with tampons, heating pad things, and my favorite chocolate. He has done that on more than one occasion. No matter how tired he is, he will do a surprise pickup if I'm working late because he hates me being out alone at that hour. Those are just a few things he does for me.

I feel most of the negative comments are from men who jealous they don't have this or from lazy women who are too self-absorbed and selfish to be nice. Mostly old boring housewives whose husbands are probably cheating on them or pay no attention to them. They are men hating shrewds! There are other nice gestures than spreading your legs or opening your mouth ladies! Or maye you would keep a good guy if you did that more than once a year.

OP, I agree with you. My wife and I would do these things for each other back in the day, before kids, jobs and life took the wind from our sails. The gesture sounds awesome. I would be very appreciative of a GF who did this for me, assuming I was into her. Good for you and don't let the haters on here ruin it for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. My guy appreciates what I do and that is all that matters. We have a very equal and loving relationship. I am not a doormat. As I stated, I have only done this type of treatment like 2 times before. My boyfriend doesn't think it's creepy for me to go over there when he isn't home. He hates laundry and I do it for him. He has and continues to do so much for me. He gave me $12,000 to borrow to pay off my student loans, I hate dishes and he does it for me whenever possible. He cooks often for me, picks up groceries if he is out and I have a busy week ( he goes into my apt too) and much more. He motivates me daily, values my opinions, etc. Last week my "red friend" came in to town while I was at his place. He could see how much pain and knows I use certain things during that time. Without asking he told me he had a quick errand to run. Came back with tampons, heating pad things, and my favorite chocolate. He has done that on more than one occasion. No matter how tired he is, he will do a surprise pickup if I'm working late because he hates me being out alone at that hour. Those are just a few things he does for me.

I feel most of the negative comments are from men who jealous they don't have this or from lazy women who are too self-absorbed and selfish to be nice. Mostly old boring housewives whose husbands are probably cheating on them or pay no attention to them. They are men hating shrewds! There are other nice gestures than spreading your legs or opening your mouth ladies! Or maye you would keep a good guy if you did that more than once a year.[/quote

I was on your side until the last paragraph.

Also, "red friend?" Makes me think you are a dude.

[Anonymous]

Oh come now everyone. OP is just upset because she was looking for five pages of "wow! You are the best girlfriend EVER! I wish you were my girlfriend" etc. And didn't get it, so now she is being defensive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. My guy appreciates what I do and that is all that matters. We have a very equal and loving relationship. I am not a doormat. As I stated, I have only done this type of treatment like 2 times before. My boyfriend doesn't think it's creepy for me to go over there when he isn't home. He hates laundry and I do it for him. He has and continues to do so much for me. He gave me $12,000 to borrow to pay off my student loans, I hate dishes and he does it for me whenever possible. He cooks often for me, picks up groceries if he is out and I have a busy week ( he goes into my apt too) and much more. He motivates me daily, values my opinions, etc. Last week my "red friend" came in to town while I was at his place. He could see how much pain and knows I use certain things during that time. Without asking he told me he had a quick errand to run. Came back with tampons, heating pad things, and my favorite chocolate. He has done that on more than one occasion. No matter how tired he is, he will do a surprise pickup if I'm working late because he hates me being out alone at that hour. Those are just a few things he does for me.

I feel most of the negative comments are from men who jealous they don't have this or from lazy women who are too self-absorbed and selfish to be nice. Mostly old boring housewives whose husbands are probably cheating on them or pay no attention to them. They are men hating shrewds! There are other nice gestures than spreading your legs or opening your mouth ladies! Or maye you would keep a good guy if you did that more than once a year.

Then why do you have to run to dcum to post about it?

[Anonymous]

"I feel most of the negative comments are from men who jealous they don't have this or from lazy women who are too self-absorbed and selfish to be nice. Mostly old boring housewives whose husbands are probably cheating on them or pay no attention to them. They are men hating shrewds! There are other nice gestures than spreading your legs or opening your mouth ladies! Or maye you would keep a good guy if you did that more than once a year."

Your student loan was a big waste of money.

[Anonymous]

He works 90 hour weeks and makes just a little more than she does? Troll!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He works 90 hour weeks and makes just a little more than she does? Troll!

+1

Also when she said "red friend" I thought: Aha!! She's a Russian mail-order bride. Yeah, no, she's definitely NOT American.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He works 90 hour weeks and makes just a little more than she does? Troll!

And yet he has $12k to give her.

[Anonymous]

This would have been more interesting if it had been a Submissive guy posting about getting ready for his Domme to return home.