S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night

Anonymous
OP, you suck as a troll (although sounds like plenty of people are believing your story). try again
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She could be having sex with female friends too...gay, bi, experimenting. If your teen is bed sharing with males and females you can be pretty sure she is sexually active.


Since when is sleeping in the same bed as you best friend (both females) a sign of having sex? You've never done that?

Even the women on Golden Girls slept in the same bed together when there were guests or a situation where the people outnumbered the amount of beds.


Or when the heater quit working. If I'm remembering correctly all four of them were in one bed that time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:People really freak out about some crazy things here...my teenage daughter has her female friends sleep over all the time and they are almost always sleeping together in her queen size bed - unless there are too many of them and they all sleep in the basement on inflatable mattresses. Nothing wrong with that and I personally think it's weird that parents (especially the PP who hasn't allowed it since age 7 years) think that it is wrong to allow same bed sleeping for same-sex friends. It makes me think they are a little "fire and brimstone" in their outlook on the world....

BUT - I would be careful about the "gay" friend sleeping with your daughter, OP. I agree with the PP that there is plenty of experimenting happening with teens. Your daughter may be absolutely telling you the truth, but be prepared to find out something different.


I totally agree! Most of the time I stayed with my friends from high school, we slept together and NOTHING ever happened. Sometimes it was in their beds, sometimes it was on a pullout couch. What is wrong with you people?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP, you suck as a troll (although sounds like plenty of people are believing your story). try again



You do realize that just because something is "crazy" in your world, doesn't mean it can't and didn't happen.
Anonymous
Umm. I had a gay BFF in high school who is male. He spent the night all the time, in my bed. Nothing ever happened since he was gay and all. He just didn't want to sleep on the floor.

That being said, he knew my parents well prior to this.
Anonymous
ALL of my gay male friends (now adults) had sex with girls in high school while they were still figuring things out.

maril332
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Anonymous wrote:ALL of my gay male friends (now adults) had sex with girls in high school while they were still figuring things out.



+1
Anonymous
My gay friend had sex with girls in HS. Some of them knew he was gay and wanted to experiment and vice versa.

He can close his eyes and pretend she's a dude too.
Anonymous
Why does his sexual orientation matter? It makes no difference rather he is gay or straight. The fact that you allowed a child (a total stranger) that you don't know sleep at your house in the bed with your daughter is the real issue here. If I don't know the child or their parents, then I wouldn't be comfortable with allowing him or her stay the night at my house.

I'm sorry OP, but your daughter played you like a deck of cards.
Anonymous
Sexual orientation matters bc if he is gay I wouldn't think he is gonna sleep with my dd

He isn't a stranger I just didn't know that he was "gay" before
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