S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
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Anonymous
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The thread about teens having sex made me think about this from a few weeks ago.
Anyway.. more to the point, a few weeks ago my DD had her friend spend the night. This was a male friend and she prefaced asking if he could stay by telling me that "oh he is gay mom!". I like to think that my "gaydar" is functional but this guy did not read gay to me at all. Anyway, I let him stay, and they slept in her bed. I don't know if anything happened, but she maintains her story of how this guy is gay. What would you think in this scenario? |
Anonymous
| Um no. No bed sharing. |
Anonymous
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What? Why would two "friends" straight , gay, whatever, share a bed?
My daughters occasionally shared their bed with a same sex friend for sleepovers when we didn't have a spare bed but that ended by age 7 or so. |
Anonymous
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Yeah, no. I wouldn't allow this.
I'm aware of a few incidents from my youth where sleepovers were permitted on the basis of being "gay" when really it was just a ruse to get the sleepover. |
Anonymous
| you got played, mom |
Anonymous
| Everyone is gay till they are naked in bed with a member of the opposite sex. |
Anonymous
| Gays like tits too. |
Anonymous
OP here. DD shares bed with her friends all the time. We don't have an extra bed and she has a Queen size. |
Anonymous
This is what I'm thinking. Gay or not I would not allow my teenager to sleep in the same bed as her gay "guy" friend. Sorry! |
Anonymous
| do you think they had sex? |
Anonymous
| She could be having sex with female friends too...gay, bi, experimenting. If your teen is bed sharing with males and females you can be pretty sure she is sexually active. |
Anonymous
Since when is sleeping in the same bed as you best friend (both females) a sign of having sex? You've never done that? Even the women on Golden Girls slept in the same bed together when there were guests or a situation where the people outnumbered the amount of beds. |
Anonymous
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Gay teenagers do a lot of experimenting. And kissing. And fondling.
Bad idea. |
Anonymous
| This has got to be a fake post because its just beyond crazy that you'd let your child do this or fall for this. |
Anonymous
| OP, you are an idiot. |