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Anonymous wrote:An American passenger threw water on a Brazilian baby's face a few years ago in the airplane.

Seems like you guys have low tolerance for whiny kids in public places...

How do you know the guy was American?

Also years of posting on DCUM show that most people (even parents) hate kids.

See posts about "don't bring your kids to resteraunts," or "how to keep your kids quiet on planes" where people attack parents for kids crying. That would never happen in my country.

Are you sure? Isn't this more individual, not country, specific? Maybe it happens in your country but they don't report it or cover it in the news because it goes against the "it would never happen in our country" ideal.

I think PP meant the "adults hate kids" in general not the assault thing. Welcoming kids into society is definitely cultural. What culture adds to the invitation "adults only" or "adult reception"?

I married a man from a culture similar to PP and while they assume kids are welcome still I had to put in the invitation "kids welcome" because my guests assumed kids don't belong in weddings. What a shame!

Some cultures have sense enough to know that many events are intended only for adults, thereby rendering that phrase obsolete.

Yup. The same culture that punches and waterboards crying babies...

So . . . why are you hangin' out in a country with a "culture that punches and waterboards crying babies?"

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Anonymous wrote:An American passenger threw water on a Brazilian baby's face a few years ago in the airplane.

Seems like you guys have low tolerance for whiny kids in public places...

How do you know the guy was American?

Also years of posting on DCUM show that most people (even parents) hate kids.

See posts about "don't bring your kids to resteraunts," or "how to keep your kids quiet on planes" where people attack parents for kids crying. That would never happen in my country.

Are you sure? Isn't this more individual, not country, specific? Maybe it happens in your country but they don't report it or cover it in the news because it goes against the "it would never happen in our country" ideal.

I think PP meant the "adults hate kids" in general not the assault thing. Welcoming kids into society is definitely cultural. What culture adds to the invitation "adults only" or "adult reception"?

I married a man from a culture similar to PP and while they assume kids are welcome still I had to put in the invitation "kids welcome" because my guests assumed kids don't belong in weddings. What a shame!

Some cultures have sense enough to know that many events are intended only for adults, thereby rendering that phrase obsolete.

Yup. The same culture that punches and waterboards crying babies...

So . . . why are you hangin' out in a country with a "culture that punches and waterboards crying babies?"

I agreed to live here for a few years (with my husband) and when we've saved up enough we are going to move back. Where it assumed that kids will attend weddings, where mothers with small children are moved to the front of lines automatically (because why make a mother with a baby wait), where pregnant women are automatically given a seat - and it's never a question, and, most important, where women don't attack each other for choices they make.

I feel sad for you here. You don't support each other - you fight. ALWAYS.

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I agreed to live here for a few years (with my husband) and when we've saved up enough we are going to move back. Where it assumed that kids will attend weddings, where mothers with small children are moved to the front of lines automatically (because why make a mother with a baby wait), where pregnant women are automatically given a seat - and it's never a question, and, most important, where women don't attack each other for choices they make.

I feel sad for you here. You don't support each other - you fight. ALWAYS.

Anonymous wrote:OK, I threw water on my own DS when he was 7 and wouldn't stop tantruming (screaming and shouting at me). I had to do it 2 other times during that summer. It stopped the
tantrum and after an hour or so when he was calm we talked about the problem calmly.

Anonymous wrote:There are incredibly annoying people on public transportation ALL the time. THose who yell into their cellphones, hog up all the space,e tc. Yet no one feels it is justified to assault them. And yet, a man assaults a baby and his mother and we're in a debate over whether American kids are spoiled?

hello? A 3 year old was punched in the face! WTF!

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Anonymous wrote:An American passenger threw water on a Brazilian baby's face a few years ago in the airplane.

Seems like you guys have low tolerance for whiny kids in public places...

How do you know the guy was American?

Also years of posting on DCUM show that most people (even parents) hate kids.

See posts about "don't bring your kids to resteraunts," or "how to keep your kids quiet on planes" where people attack parents for kids crying. That would never happen in my country.

Are you sure? Isn't this more individual, not country, specific? Maybe it happens in your country but they don't report it or cover it in the news because it goes against the "it would never happen in our country" ideal.

I think PP meant the "adults hate kids" in general not the assault thing. Welcoming kids into society is definitely cultural. What culture adds to the invitation "adults only" or "adult reception"?

I married a man from a culture similar to PP and while they assume kids are welcome still I had to put in the invitation "kids welcome" because my guests assumed kids don't belong in weddings. What a shame!

Some cultures have sense enough to know that many events are intended only for adults, thereby rendering that phrase obsolete.

Yup. The same culture that punches and waterboards crying babies...

So . . . why are you hangin' out in a country with a "culture that punches and waterboards crying babies?"

She secretly loves the US and Americans. Right, PP?

Either that or perhaps she enjoys the freedoms that can't be found in many other countries--like freedom of speech?!

Actually not. I'm not free here. You guys pay me well, that's all.

Anonymous wrote:There are incredibly annoying people on public transportation ALL the time. THose who yell into their cellphones, hog up all the space,e tc. Yet no one feels it is justified to assault them. And yet, a man assaults a baby and his mother and we're in a debate over whether American kids are spoiled?

hello? A 3 year old was punched in the face! WTF!

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Anonymous wrote:There are incredibly annoying people on public transportation ALL the time. THose who yell into their cellphones, hog up all the space,e tc. Yet no one feels it is justified to assault them. And yet, a man assaults a baby and his mother and we're in a debate over whether American kids are spoiled?

hello? A 3 year old was punched in the face! WTF!

He pushed the 3 yo's head. The mom was punched in the mouth.

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Anonymous wrote:An American passenger threw water on a Brazilian baby's face a few years ago in the airplane.

Seems like you guys have low tolerance for whiny kids in public places...

How do you know the guy was American?

Also years of posting on DCUM show that most people (even parents) hate kids.

See posts about "don't bring your kids to resteraunts," or "how to keep your kids quiet on planes" where people attack parents for kids crying. That would never happen in my country.

Are you sure? Isn't this more individual, not country, specific? Maybe it happens in your country but they don't report it or cover it in the news because it goes against the "it would never happen in our country" ideal.

I think PP meant the "adults hate kids" in general not the assault thing. Welcoming kids into society is definitely cultural. What culture adds to the invitation "adults only" or "adult reception"?

I married a man from a culture similar to PP and while they assume kids are welcome still I had to put in the invitation "kids welcome" because my guests assumed kids don't belong in weddings. What a shame!

Some cultures have sense enough to know that many events are intended only for adults, thereby rendering that phrase obsolete.

Yup. The same culture that punches and waterboards crying babies...

So . . . why are you hangin' out in a country with a "culture that punches and waterboards crying babies?"

She secretly loves the US and Americans. Right, PP?

Either that or perhaps she enjoys the freedoms that can't be found in many other countries--like freedom of speech?!

Actually not. I'm not free here. You guys pay me well, that's all.

Yes, you are free here--free to come and go and express your ideas. As you said, you're also free to accept financially rewarding paychecks.

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