DH and long drawn out Sex Sessions
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Anonymous
| Umm...bucko, newsflash, we have an infant now, just in case you haven't noticed. Porn worthy marathon sex sessions will no longer be viable. We were trying to get it on this morning at 5am, DC had just gone back to sleep after her feeding. I had to get up and 5.30 to pump and there goes my dear husband taking his jolly time, lingering in the moment. DC let out sutble cries, one would think DH would hurry it up, but no, he was still basking in the moment until she let out a really loud wail, my boobs in turn responded by leaking so of course the whole episode had to come to an end without a satisfying ending for either of us. He went to go feed her, I went to pump before getting ready for work..ugh! |
Anonymous
| At least he went to feed her!! |
TheManWithAUsername
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You should talk to this woman:
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/212322.page |
Anonymous
| Yep. My ex could never get the idea of "quickie" through his head. I begged and begged. Nope, if it wasn't film-worthy he was mad. |
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
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| Tho why do I think if it was always get in get off and get out she would be complaining about that too. |
Anonymous
| Put a spouse on the back burner = sexless marriage and/or divorce. |
Anonymous
Aw c'mon - she was getting it on with him at 5am between feeding sessions of their infant...she's hardly depriving him! |
Anonymous
| Does this sound awesome to anyone else? I WISH we had long drawn out sessions! |
Anonymous
This, seriously. Talk to him about it kindly and really work out a way that you can all get what you need. If you don't talk to him and put together an action plan, he'll just feel rejected and eventually you won't be getting any sex sessions at all. |
Anonymous
I was thinking the same thing, but I see where OP is coming from. A crying baby would be distracting to me as well and I am constantly horny. |
Anonymous
Reality check: things change when you have a kid. Good news is, the baby doesn't stay little forever. You have to adjust. |
Anonymous
| I wish my husband still had that stamina. 2 yrs of little sex has made him a minute man. Sigh. |
Anonymous
| I'm impressed that you're having sex at 5 am. Between two young kids, nursing, pumping and both of us working f/t, we are always too exhausted. |
Anonymous
Sounds awesome to me too! Signed, Single Girl |
Anonymous
| Careful what you wish for. I wouldn't train him to hurry too much or you will find yourself in a much worse situation in a few years. |