TheManWithAUsername wrote:You might want to look for the thread in the explicit forum about what men notice. Like TSFG said, I think clothes are some of the least important things.

If you think he responds well to nice outfits, he may just be responding to an obvious sign of effort; that's a big turn-on for me. You can show effort with just makeup or by doing your hair as opposed to putting it back.

I think it's the rare man who's going to notice a big difference in clothing based on cost. Fashion is for women and gay men.

That said, the underwear may be important, depending on what kind of attention you're trying to attract.

Anonymous wrote:Ok I'll take that as an honest question. Honestly I think I look pretty good. But I do feel better if I have a nice outfit on and he seems to respond better to new outfits than the same ones over and over. I don't wear a ton of makeup - usually just mascara, powder and lip gloss, but that stuff costs money too.

Anonymous wrote:It might also be that you feel more attractive and confident in a new outfit and he picks up on that. Also, it sounds like your body has changed and your new clothes fit better than your old clothes, which probably look baggy. It may not matter to him that they are new. It seems reasonable to buy new clothes when what you have doesn't fit right or isn't comfortable--hopefully he'll understand, especially because you need a fair number of new clothes now but you won't be frequently buying new clothes in the future.

Anonymous wrote:I think you all are right about the fit. I need to find a good tailor. Like I realized last night that I had just put on these old jeans of mine that I used to love and I can literally pull them on without unbuttoning them. They need to go. But then I would need to buy new jeans to replace them.