15 year old staying home overnight alone

Jkirsh64
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No. I just think 15 is too young even for a very responsible kid. A couple more years and I think it would be fine.
Do you know a responsible college kid that could stay with her?
Anonymous
With responsible DC, yes. I believe I mentioned to the neighbor (friend) too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You are pretty much inviting them to have tons of sex all over the house should you allow this op.

That’s what will happen


This is why I wouldn’t let my 16 year old stay home alone. Why make it easy for her to have sex with her boyfriend? I am not naive. I know they can find a time and place to do this if they want to, but my job is not to make it easy.


Exactly. I think some parents secretly live through their teens sex lives. Like they secretly hope their kids are acting like rabbits while they are away for the weekend. The type of parents that provide condoms and lubes a little too freely to their teenage kids.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You are pretty much inviting them to have tons of sex all over the house should you allow this op.

That’s what will happen


This is why I wouldn’t let my 16 year old stay home alone. Why make it easy for her to have sex with her boyfriend? I am not naive. I know they can find a time and place to do this if they want to, but my job is not to make it easy.


Exactly. I think some parents secretly live through their teens sex lives. Like they secretly hope their kids are acting like rabbits while they are away for the weekend. The type of parents that provide condoms and lubes a little too freely to their teenage kids.


Are you frakking insane? Do you actually know anyone like this, or just watch too much tv? Good lord.

I would let 15 year old, but I think I'd be comfortable with only one night.
Anonymous
No way. Never.
Anonymous
My parents did this with a much younger sibling. She invited a “few” friends over. Someone posted party at her house on social media. Hundred or so people later...and a LOT of MIPs were given out


Bad bad idea OP
Anonymous
Sure, I have a responsible kid, we have cameras, so would be able to see if anyone came over. I'd have my neighbor keep an eye on things. In 2022 I don't see how a teen could get away with a party like we did!
Anonymous
OP, she is fully capable of being home alone. You are very foolish if you think you can anticipate all of her actions though.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ask one of the grandparents to stay with her …. Instead of her going to them?


My mom has mobility difficulties and our house isn't fully accessible. And because she's a fall risk, it's better that she not be alone overnight.


Then how would she even have dinner with the grandparents?


One of my parents can drive her. My mom can drive, even if she can't go up and down the stairs in my house. My dad can get to her quickly in case of emergency.

My gut says no, but when my daughter asks what I'm worried about, I can't think of anything that is a realistic fear (the house is not going to spontaneously burst into flames).


I have an amazingly responsible 15-year old and also a similar college freshman girl. The answer is no. Yes, it would probably be fine. Still, go with your gut, no.
Anonymous
No.
Anonymous
I find it sad how many of you don't trust your kids. My parents left me at home for a weekend occasionally when I was in high school. It was fine. I never had parties, never had sex "all over the house". I might have had a friend or two over to keep me company, but that was okay with my parents.

If OP finds her kid to be responsible and trusts her, then why shouldn't she? Especially if there are people she can call if there's an emergency.
Anonymous
I guess I’m glad my son is geeky and hasn’t started dating yet. No worry that he’s going to invite his girlfriend over to have sex. Probably would play online video games with his friends like usual.
Anonymous
Depends on the kid, her friends, and the neighbors. Do you have neighbors that will let you know if she has people over? Do you have neighbors so can go to for help if needed?

I might try one night before you do a full weekend,
Anonymous
No
Anonymous
It’s sad how many helicopter parents there are. 15 is old enough for 2 days alone.
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