After seeing the posts mentioned above, I must say that US soccer is growing. I've recently moved from Europe where the grassroots structure is very different. However, in States you have some really good coaches but do believe that outside help is crucial for kids/parents who are not happy with the coaching they're receiving (happens everywhere guys)
I actually came across this app Athlete Focus. So what these guys are doing is that they end up breaking down moments in the game and create exhaustive analysis on player actions. I used it for my son and it did help because one of the coaches who provided the analysis was at Barcelona for many years.
Not sure if it's for everyone but it has worked for me