Hello everyone.
Original poster here.
First and foremost this was my first post ever and I am so thankful and appreciative of every one of your responses.
It has given me so much hope and encouragement to move forward. You guys have no idea

Thank you again.
It's been really hard.
Yesterday husband and I had a follow up appointment with our doctor at SGF (Dr. Doyle) and he (very gently and empathetically) recommended that we go to CCRM since they do use different culture media in their labs than SGF does.
He is really rooting for our success, whether it be SGF or elsewhere. I appreciated his recommendation although hubby did not (thinks he wants to sorta get rid of us since we will screw up SGF's success rates).
A lot of people responded that they recommend Cornell. I'm originally a New Yorker who had lived in Manhattan for 15 years and of course back then I wasn't seeking serious fertility treatment.
I was a patient at NYU Fertility for a little bit before husband and I moved here. I guess that's how life goes. Maybe I should go to Cornell for an initial consult as well...
I've made an appt with Dr. Owen at CCRM for now.
According to google reviews, Dr. Payson is rated really highly there. But I look at Dr. Owen's credentials and I'm leaning towards her.
Anyone who is/was a current or past patient at CCRM- Please let me know your thoughts on doctor choice.
Thank you so so much.