These are the most respected private schools in the country. Still, parents choose to argue like pre-school children about who is prettier, smarter, sportier, sexier, and "most likely to succeed."

Not only the school to consider. Class cohorts probably make an even bigger difference in your child's life. But, this (as many things) is not something that can be predicted or planned for.

Depends on the competitiveness of the schools. If he applied to St. Albans, Sidwell, Maret and GDS he should apply to more. If he included other (and equally capable) schools, he should be fine. Do not depend on WL. It will never come through (unless you have special access).

Actually, I'm most interested in the one he likes, but you don't. Why is that? Might be right/might be wrong. But, the decision about that school is the one that will best describe your relationship with your son moving forward (whether he attends or not).

Be well.

There is a lot of opportunity for growth between the PSAT and the SAT. Don't get discouraged. It is important to develop a plan - a way forward. There are many options that are sensitive to both time and finances. But, remember that PSAT/SAT is only one contribution to the application process. Other contributions include grades, but also a child's readiness.

You as a parent can best help her traverse this complex landscape. Trust your gut.

Probably depends on what schools your child is applying to. Without having a sense of your/his/her aspirations and his/her needs - would say apply broadly, up to 7-8? Make sure that wherever you apply it makes sense for your child and your family.

Parents have a very tough job. It is to find the "Big 3" for their own child. Those choices could include DeMatha, Field, Sidwell, Flint Hill, St. Albans, Lab, Duke Ellington, Holy Child, JDS, Thomas Jefferson. . . The list goes on and on. If you want to get your child into the "best" school . . . know your child.

Why should any legacy school impress a child? Your daughter should (with you) choose her own school - the one that most resonates with her (and you). We live in a city that has more opportunity than most. Help her make the choice that makes the most sense. Forget the rest of the rubbish.