Sorry there were no professional recommendations, OP. I have some experience with this and can offer some amateur support. Please feel free to send me a PM and vent or get some advice.

Anonymous wrote:Stop with the fat shaming!

OMFG, there's not enough of it, if "shaming" is PC code for constructive feedback that someone is starting down an unhealthy path. I'd get DH into a walking habit for starters (something you can do together) and help his diet with more balance and smaller portions. It's not just about staying attractive for your partner, but staying alive longer for them and your children too.

Or a bunch them, OP.? Is that the same as commitment phobia?