Did you have dreams, visions, premonitions, or clues of your spouse before you got together?

[Anonymous]

Is this a thing for anyone? My first experience with this was a dream when I was about 12, and sporadically since then. Until a month ago the last occurrence was last August about us and our child/ The child in the dream was many things, but one huge piece about her in the dream was she was a healer- for the family. Didn't think much of it , there than she seemed a cool kid and I or any family would be lucky to have her. Nothing since then until the last couple of months when I have had these intense feelings saying "he's near", which okay that's great. The most recent vision has been he's going to have to endure something terrible in order for us to be together. Something so terrible that I don't want it for him- a guy that I'm not sure exists, and if he does not sure I'm right about it.

So I guess what I want to know is, has anyone else experienced this? If so how accurate were your visions?

[Anonymous]

To be honest, it sounds like something my XW experienced before she had a mental breakdown. Seek help. Not saying this in a mean way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To be honest, it sounds like something my XW experienced before she had a mental breakdown. Seek help. Not saying this in a mean way.

You were being mean, but that's okay. I'll just choose to take your response as " No I have not experienced this."

[Anonymous]

Yes I had a vivid vision of my family with kids when I was young. It looks like my family today (kid gaps, genders, hair color, etc).

[Anonymous]

Yes, down to the first name of my husband. I was 18-ish and asked to dream about my future husband. I also dreamed he had an issue with walking during the same dream. I hated the name at the time and thought it was absolutely ridiculous to put any more thought into it. Didn’t think about it about the whole thing again until after I was married and was like whoa. Especially since I fell in love with a different guy just after the dream (freshman in college).

I also dreamed that I had to drive the car over a bridge as a kid an crashed it, and well, that never happened.

[Anonymous]

nightmares mostly

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, down to the first name of my husband. I was 18-ish and asked to dream about my future husband. I also dreamed he had an issue with walking during the same dream. I hated the name at the time and thought it was absolutely ridiculous to put any more thought into it. Didn’t think about it about the whole thing again until after I was married and was like whoa. Especially since I fell in love with a different guy just after the dream (freshman in college).

I also dreamed that I had to drive the car over a bridge as a kid an crashed it, and well, that never happened.

Don't want to be rude, but does your husband have an issue with walking?

Yead I don't claim I have a gift or something. I have plenty of other dreams that have never happened, it's just the accompanying feelings that are different than my other dreams.

[Anonymous]

I knew my husband as a child growing up and our families were acquaintances.

[Anonymous]

Sounds supernatural. So, no.

[Anonymous]

Sounds supernatural. So, no.

[Anonymous]

No. But getting married and having kids were not a priority for me. I have both now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. But getting married and having kids were not a priority for me. I have both now.

OP here. I can't say it's been a priority for me either, it's more of in the category of most adults do these things and if it happens it happens, it's why I find it so intriguing.