How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?

First one was at a work thing. We texted pretty frequently - multiple times a day. But it fizzled out since we couldn’t see each other (lived 1000 miles apart, and there are only so many work functions)

Second one was an ex-bf from before marriage I got back in contact with. We’d spend time together on weekends and I left my H for him within a couple months. Now engaged to him.

I know I’ll get flamed, but my marriage was really bad. It was easy to justify staying when I didn’t have anyone else I wanted to be with.

Oh, and for texting, I just hide notifications from them. Which wasn’t new, I had been hiding notifications from my H for a long time because he was controlling and didn’t even want me texting with family.

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04/10/2021 09:22

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Approx. 2 times a month for sex. My house when husband is at work/kids at school...struggle since Covid so now a day hotel while I say I’m running errand or going to gym.

Skype messaging.

Maybe once a month meet at a Starbucks but don’t sit across from one another.

Had 2 overnights. I made an excuse I was visiting a girlfriend. He used work as an excuse.

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04/10/2021 09:46

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Once a week. Met on another discussion board. Mostly only communicate about logistics of getting together. Do t text or call much In-between. I like that about her. Usually email on another email account where I delete the emails anyway to be safe.

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04/10/2021 10:25

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Don't care about this too much from a moral standpoint, but from a hilarity standpoint I do hope you all get caught.

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04/10/2021 10:27

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Anonymous wrote:Don't care about this too much from a moral standpoint, but from a hilarity standpoint I do hope you all get caught.

They certainly deserve it!!

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04/10/2021 10:28

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What’s an AP?

affair partner or advanced placement

Or au pair! It’s important to note which forum you are in.

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04/10/2021 11:52

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Anonymous wrote:Don't care about this too much from a moral standpoint, but from a hilarity standpoint I do hope you all get caught.

Caught, and screwed on child custody and $$ in the divorces.

If they're that unhappy or have "needs my spouse can't fulfill" they need to be single again. Divorce already.

But they all love the thrill of the illicitness, and that won't be there with just boring old single person sex. Unless the person they're sleeping with is married.