Less me your successful separation stories

[Anonymous]

I truly do not want a divorce but see no options at this time besides to attempt to work on our relationship with some space. What worked for you? Any tips, ideas, strategies helped with an eventual reconciliation?

Thank you very much in advance

[Anonymous]

Only 13 percent reconcile after a separation.
https://www.marriage.com/advice/divorce/how-many-separations-end-in-divorce/

If you do not want a divorce, I don't know why you would separation unless the other spouse has already declared a separation (then you have no choice). But usually, this is a path toward divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Only 13 percent reconcile after a separation.
https://www.marriage.com/advice/divorce/how-many-separations-end-in-divorce/

If you do not want a divorce, I don't know why you would separation unless the other spouse has already declared a separation (then you have no choice). But usually, this is a path toward divorce.

So they can bang other people to test the waters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Only 13 percent reconcile after a separation.
https://www.marriage.com/advice/divorce/how-many-separations-end-in-divorce/

If you do not want a divorce, I don't know why you would separation unless the other spouse has already declared a separation (then you have no choice). But usually, this is a path toward divorce.

So they can bang other people to test the waters.

And if they find someone new, then they will commit to divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Only 13 percent reconcile after a separation.
https://www.marriage.com/advice/divorce/how-many-separations-end-in-divorce/

If you do not want a divorce, I don't know why you would separation unless the other spouse has already declared a separation (then you have no choice). But usually, this is a path toward divorce.

So they can bang other people to test the waters.

And if they find someone new, then they will commit to divorce.

Or their AP dumps them and they come crawling back...

[Anonymous]

People separate because they suspect they will be happier apart, and want to test it out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People separate because they suspect they will be happier apart, and want to test it out.

Many want to start screwing other people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People separate because they suspect they will be happier apart, and want to test it out.

Many want to start screwing other people.

+1

They are doing a test run of their prospects on the free market.

It’s not unusual for the one pushing for a trial separation to be the one that ultimately regrets it when the spouse finds love.

[Anonymous]

Separate only if you plan to divorce. There is no other valid reason.

[Anonymous]

I don’t see why anyone thinks it’s okay to cheat when you are separated. You are still legally married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t see why anyone thinks it’s okay to cheat when you are separated. You are still legally married.

Most were already cheating which is why they wanted a separation to begin with.