Sex and pregnancy

[Anonymous]

I am in my first trimester and it randomly came up that my boyfriend will not be having sex with me at " around 6 months". He has a child from his previous marriage. He says it makes him feel weird. How do I make him get over this? I'm really upset by this.

[Anonymous]

Some men have a mental block about this. I'm a little concerned that you're upset and want to "make" him get over it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some men have a mental block about this. I'm a little concerned that you're upset and want to "make" him get over it.

LOL you are concerned? Your post does not seem to help the poster.

[Anonymous]

Some men have a hangup about it. You may feel pretty large and uncomfortable by then. We had sex until the day dd came. In fact the sex stimulated her arrival as she was a week overdue.

[Anonymous]

My husband was a bit weird at that point too. I was a little upset by it and we talked about it and he asked me to actually picture him carrying our child in his stomach as it grew larger and larger and whether that would increase my sexual attraction. I had to admit upon picturing this that it in fact did not at all sound appealing haha. So we found work around and my interest wained as well. It’s only a few months and then your whole world changes so I would just stay open about your feelings but also be understanding that his are valid too

[Anonymous]

With our first child my husband was very “protective” about the fetus. But with 2, 3 and 4 he got over it.

[Anonymous]

Second trimester sex is freaking amazing. Just wear something loose, get the ball rolling and then do it from behind.

[Anonymous]

No sex while I was pregnant. Nothing felt weirder to me. It was 9months of creativity but I really didn’t want my husband inside me.

[Anonymous]

boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

We don’t after baby starts moving. It’s creepy.

[Anonymous]

Your focused is misplaced. Why has he not married you if he is the father.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your focused is misplaced. Why has he not married you if he is the father.

Considering his attitude she's better off not marrying him.

[Anonymous]

Man I miss those days when my ex-wife in her third trimester. Something about those hormones. She was relentless. All doggy. All the time. Twice a day or more sometimes. I felt like a victim. Lol. Really. It was off the charts.

[Anonymous]

Sex is such a wide range of things. Does he mean that ALL forms of sex make him feel weird? Here is something that feels quite weird: many months with zero kinds of sex!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your focused is misplaced. Why has he not married you if he is the father.

Because he clearly hates me.