Am I am queer/questioning

[Anonymous]

Have not had sex in 6+ years by DH's choice. This has been a challenging period of great reflection for me. I'm definitely Q at this point. Anyone else in a sexless marriage not non-heterosexual, asexual or queer BTDT?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have not had sex in 6+ years by DH's choice. This has been a challenging period of great reflection for me. I'm definitely Q at this point. Anyone else in a sexless marriage not non-heterosexual, asexual or queer BTDT?

You may just be horny.

[Anonymous]

Sexless marriage or not, this is about you, and your desires. What do you want to happen?

[Anonymous]

What is his reasoning? You should agree to discreetly open the marriage if there’s some other benefit to staying. But we don’t know what you’re feeling.

[Anonymous]

It’s only gay if you like it.

[Anonymous]

I am in a sex-less same sex marriage. Doesn't make me straight...or want to be straight....or think I am. There are a lot of reasons we haven't had sex in 8 years...but I am staying because we are good co-parents and good friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am in a sex-less same sex marriage. Doesn't make me straight...or want to be straight....or think I am. There are a lot of reasons we haven't had sex in 8 years...but I am staying because we are good co-parents and good friends.

Same boat. DW and I get along more as friends nowadays than anything. Would enjoy the opportunity to try a same sex relationship but DW would never go for it.